When I first started game, whenever a set went awkward, or the girl wasn't being receptive I would bounce. And I wouldn't talk to them again.
These couple of months I made it an effort to reopen sets to 'troll' the girl. However what I noticed was that they were quite more receptive the second time, rather than the first time.
I.E. I approached a two set, "Hey you're cute. Who are you?" I got physical immediately, and she reciprocated but was kind of creeped out by how direct I was. I introduced myself to the friend, and we talked for a bit then they just left without saying anything. I saw them later again that night, and yelled "HEY YOU" she turned around, and I'm like "YEAH YOU." She started smiling and said "Heyy, you're the guy from earlier, what's your name again?"
I said "Wow you forgot my name? I'm going to punish you." So I went in for a kiss, and she turned and gave me the cheek. I kissed her on the cheek and she said "I thought you were gonna punish me." I said "I am, I hate you so much you white trash dead beat whore, don't forget my name like that." She reacted as if I said it seriously, then I said "Just kidding, I love you, you're so sexy." I went in for the kiss and we ended up making out.
Another example. I saw a hottie eating by herself in the school cafeteria. I ditched my friends for a second to go talk to her. I went direct as usual. She was focused on her laptop doing some school work. Eventually it got super boring so I ejected. I saw her on campus another day, smiled and said Hi. We started talking, I got a bit more physical, set up a date and got her number. We went out for dinner yesterday.
Listen guys. What I learned is that even though shit gets awkward, and you think you got rejected. YOU DID NOT GET REJECTED. You are officially rejected if she completely ignores you, or tells you to fuck off.
When you reopen sets, REOPEN THEM LIKE THEY'RE YOUR FUCKING FRIENDS. When you see a friend walking by, you open them. It's not awkward. You already knew them before, so you can say hi and shit. Same thing goes with sets that didn't go well the first time. REOPEN them like you have known them for a bit.
Girls are sometimes socially awkward when approached by guys. It's all so present they don't know how to react, so they close off because you're a stranger. And we're socially conditioned to be weary of strangers.
But when you reopen them, you're not a stranger. You've already met. You just now have to get shit going with them. I guarantee they'll be more receptive.
Last night I went clubbing, I approached a 5 set, 3 girls and two guys. I wanted to go direct and approach ALL THREE. So I went in, they all laughed and smiled. Like this shit has never happened to them before. Then things got awkward because they sucked ass at dancing and didn't respond well to having a grinding train
. So I ejected. I saw the three girls by themselves at the end of the night and went in hard. "HEY YOU GUYS, I REMEMBER YOU SEXY LADIES." They were like "Heyyy! Yeah, how was your night?"
I # closed on three.
Most guys in game thinks it's awkward to reopen a set, because the initial interaction didn't go well.
WRONG.
It's awkward because you think it's awkward. And when you think it's awkward, your vibe and body language portray that. And the girl will feel that awkwardness.
But when you don't give a fuck, and treat them like you've known them, then they will react positively when you reopen.
I've reopened a set four times before they started reacting positively. A fun and non reactive guy treats every person as if he already knew them. So many guys approach girls, have the sets fail, and then treat the girl as a ghost because they think it's awkward.
My last example. There was this 10 at the club last night. She walked by and was dancing at the same time. I turned her around and started dancing to her. I had her grinding on me while all my guy friends were giving me the thumbs up.
She then randomly stopped, didn't say a thing and left.
I thought she had left the club, but I saw her again and she was walking towards my direction. I was like "AMY!" She smiled, and I pulled her in for a hug, and whispered "You're so cute, dance with me." She grinded on me for like 10 secs, and said "I'm tired, sorry." and walked away.
The club closed down and I saw her outside. I reopened "You're a bad dancer, learn to dance better Utah faggot." She was like "Faggot? Don't call me that faggot." I said "Just kidding, I love you." She said while laughing "I love you to."
I invited her out for some yogurt with me, but she declined. I suggested we meetup next week, and she said she'll see. I live in a small town, and I'll likely see her again at school. So I said goodbye, (I don't get numbers unless we plan for a meetup. Numbers should be used as a logistics tool IMO)
I was walking towards the yogurt place, and I see a group of hot girls getting in. I screamed "HEY, WANNA GIVE US A RIDE?"
It turned out to be Amy and her friends, "I'm sorry, we don't have room."
And I'm like "AMY it's me VP."
She was like "Oh hey."
And I said, "Come get yogurt with us."
She asked her friends, they were down for it.
I got her number and we're meeting up tomorrow.
REOPEN YOUR SETS FELLAS.
CHAT