Hey guys,
Have you ever been with a girl and just been unable to get her to fulfill your filthiest fetishes? Just thought I'd share something quite nerdy that I've used with girls who weren't very skilled in the sack, to put it nicely. Before I start, of course the natural approach of taking control, guiding a girl through her nervousness and making her feel sexy is the best method to get the kind of sex you want, simply because it's more open and honest. If this method works for you, then continue using it because if it ain't broke, don't fix it! But in my experience and despite my best efforts, some girls will still feel self-conscious and unadventurous, especially when it comes to the more hardcore stuff (in my case, it tends to be those blasting messy facials
).
So this is something to use on either less confident, low self-esteem girls who are perhaps nervous about their bodies or their performance. It's irrelevant whether she is your girlfriend, an FB or an MLTR, the principle is the same. It can also work on power-hungry girls who are too confident with what they do / don't like, i.e. the ones who say "THERE IS NO FUCKING WAY YOU ARE CUMMING IN MY FACE!"
The key here is to use roleplay to make her absolve herself of the responsibility for being the slut she truly wants to be. A secure girl who is confident in the bedroom will still get self-conscious from time to time, but the simple action of you being a natural and taking control (i.e. responsibility) is enough for her to let loose. But for very shy LSE girls who just feel certain acts are too degrading, there is another way. I've tried and tested this method which has had some excellent results so far (Five girls so far and only failed with 1 out of 5, still working on her though...).
Basically, the idea is to create her a "slut" personality, an alter-ego, complete with a creative slutty pornstar name. It's basically like a 2nd avatar with whom she feels a connection / affinity. Lots of girls love fantasy and it's no surprise that it's usually the LSE girls who are the type who get into RPG games such as The Sims and WoW. The obvious reason why is because role-playing games are another form of escapism, a world where there is no responsibility in the real world for their actions. It doesn't make a difference whether you do this via texting, in person during foreplay or even going as far as letting her buy fantasy costumes (yes, one chick wanted to go that far, don't ask
). The main objective is for her to believe in the fantasy so that she lets loose.
The advantage of this is she will feel free of the emotional connotations of letting you jizz in her face (for the sake of argument), because she knows that afterwards she can blame the sluttiness on her alter ego, thus destroying her "post F-close anti-slut defence" (not to be confused with the initial LMR you get from a girl you haven't laid yet).
I have also found this to be a versatile method, because it can be used for other purposes. E.g. The first girl I ever attempted this on had a furry afro pussy which was a big turn-off for me. I never went down on her, so I thought if I held out, eventually she would cave in because I always mentioned how good I am with my tongue. But she never did. The only way I finally managed to get her to shave it was by using her alter-ego, Candy, a cheeky jailbait schoolgirl who needed to be disciplined. I managed to put the images into her mind that schoolgirls don't have big furry fro carpets downstairs and eventually she got caught up in the fantasy and rolled with it. I rewarded her with a tongue-fuelled squirting session and needless to say she kept it shaved after that!
Would be interested to see if this works for anyone else.
Have fun,
AFC Hunter Foxe
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