I've asked 12+ girls this year out, and only learned and been using game on 3+ of them. They always have some excuse(generally not boyfriends) but..

"Getting rid of my phone"
"Taking a year break to learn spiritually"
"In Uni and don't want to bother with relationships"



What gives? I know I am a uni student and not a "provider" so I think this is the biggest factor for me.

I'm 5'7 maybe I am not the "alpha" build/type... I am very confident and assert myself, I speak up and not scared AFC anymore. I approach women oftne/when I can etc.... The thing is though I cannot keep a conversation lasting long, moving it to a date helps and I'v done better on it.

I had a good relationship this year with one girl, we had everything in common, and had lots of fun for the two months I knew her. The problem was she never called back when she went on vacation w/family.


I hate using opinion openers, I seem weird using them. I rather just tell them they are cute, then ask question+statements.

The real honest truth I see is in myself, is I am not really attracted to most women, only 8.5's or so, and I really have NOTHING to say to them, I just want in their pants. Most of the time we have NOTHING in common. The only reason I can talk to them is statements or small talk.


Friend's/family always telling me to "be myself" which never works!!! I tried that on 8 girls and it didn't work.

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It is not AA that scares me or affects me anymore, its leading a conversation forward and keeping her interested. AA is nothing.

Just start escalating with small touches. Also remember, if your not having fun, they probably are not either. If this happens, move on to the next girl until you are having fun.

Hope this helped.