Where do I begin? I guess from the beginning would be a good start... So Monday I decided to try out some day game. It worked out pretty well, I got to make out in the back room with a store manager, but; after *closing she said that she'd really like to hang out on Wednesday (her day off). So Wednesday comes, no call. I was really hung up on her. I know, I know, one-itis. It took me a day to get over this.

That was the longest day of my life. I even resorted to doing yard work. Bad idea. Being alone listening to music makes me think. I couldn't take it anymore. I went down to Starbucks, a place that's notorious for hiring cute girls, and started talking to one of my former co-workers (yes, I used to work there) turns out that she liked being around me. This was back in my AFC days. So we talk and I tell her that my birthday is tomorrow and I start my new job as a corrections officer on Monday. She tells me about this other girl who works at the Starbucks in the town where I'm starting; saying that she has pretty eyes and all that stuff (obviously a shit test) I said something like, "yeah, but I bet they can't hold a candle to yours". I guess I must have passed because she asked that since I'm moving out of town for this job if I would come back to see her. I told her that, maybe if I feel like putting up with you. I said that with a smile and a wink. Her reply to this was, "you better". She gave me her number, I gave her mine saying, "You better get mine too, because I like to flake out and not call" (again, said with a smile) she laughed. Then she told me what her schedule usually looks like and to come back when she's working.

Then Starbucks started to get crowded and I told her that I had to leave, so I hugged her and walked out the door.


Looking back on my excursion with her, I had all the IOI's to kiss her, but the location was all wrong. Plus after working at the same store she does and knowing the people who work there, that would have caused more drama for her than she needs. Shit flies around there faster than two monkeys in a cage fighting.

So after that I've been cured of my one-itis. Thanks for listening, I just needed to get this off my chest

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I thought about you yesterday, or was it the day before?

you have to keep busy your life shouldnt be based around women... its merely a sub-division

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NoboDY caN HaNG WIth MY STUFF...

I dont think this was one-itis. I just think you put alot of importance one this one girl, thats why its good to have options so this does'nt happen. It would take me alot longer to get one-itis. You said she did'nt call, why did'nt you call her, did you not have her number? Thats why you must always get there #, it does'nt matter so much if they dont have yours. Otherwise then its out of your hands and your just relying on her to call, an you cant garantee they will do. Hope this helps

I did get her number, called her twice; then sat around and got upset with myself that I was relying on her to call back. I figured the only way for me to move on was to go and find somebody else. But yeah, I guess it wasn't one-itis; but rather, a momentary fixation.

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I thought about you yesterday, or was it the day before?

Yep thats what you do man just forgot about it and find another girl. An chances are she will ring you in a couple of days or you'll see her again some other time.

Make time for people that make time for you.