| I've been in this community for about 2 years now, and I might just give you the worthier advice I will ever give on pick up.
You probably heard it before, but I'll say it again: Embrace rejection. Always go for the "no".
The meaning of this is actually to always push it as far as you can, no matter what the situation is. Always work yourself up until she says "no". Escalate!
Here's a little story.
About 2 years ago, just before I started PU, I had a solid case of one-itis with this really cute blond. She was obviously into me, but she'd never give a good IOI, like touching my shoulder or whatever...
I brought her back to my place and we slept together in the same bed. We didn't even kiss. She wasn't giving me any IOI, and I was too frightened to go for a move.
We didn't talk much afterwards, she found a boyfriend and I did my stuff... Until a couple of weeks ago, when she broke up with her boyfriend. She wanted to see me, so I invited her to my place, and she was acting exactly like 2 years ago. I knew she was into me but she wasn't giving any IOI. Only thing is, thanks to the PU community, I knew what to do.
I went for the kiss, and she was actually craving for this. We made out for a while. When we were in my bed, she did her thing, just being quiet while I was escalating. Kind of fucked me up a little but didn't stop me. I wanted to escalate until she says no, not expecting the full close because of her behavior. I had to do everything all the way to the f-close, and then it was game on.
So basically, I did something that I could've done years ago if I escalated until she says "no".
Game on, guys
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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,
Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!
Sincerely, the Opportunist
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