So I've been reading a lot about NLP and trying to teach myself some lately. My AIM is usually on all day along with my computer, my away messages detail the very hectic lifestyle I lead.

I was wondering if NLP was possible through an away message. Basically, I have a few HBs who I know are constantly checking my AM when they are at their computer.

The one I am really interested in trying this on, not even to get her in bed, but more of a boyfriend destroyer, is easily a HB10, very smart, model (kind of an oxymoron some of you may be thinking haha). She is the type that has obstacle after obstacle, road blocks, and shit tests before you can even have a decent conversation with her.

Basically I messed up my chances, from 100 to 0, with this girl who was completely into me until one night when I was drunk (never got to that point ever since). She is now back with her ex-boyfriend over winter break.

I know she still thinks I like her (which I do, it's one-itis, but worthy of another post), but I haven't shown it, and I'm sure she still thinks of me and is constantly reading my AMs, because we are creatures of habit and she would always text and comment me on my cocky, funny, witty, stupid away messages when I was actually close with her.

A) Is it possible that NLP works even through reading and long distance?
B) If it does, anything I can try to hit her subconscious to keep her thinking about me for the next month until school starts, maybe break up with her boyfriend before she gets back so I can swep her off her feet haha?

If not, that's cool, I just got out of the friend zone with 4 girls I've known for 3+ years, 2 of which I have dates with this week. The learning process is definitely worth my time and awesome if anyone has anything NLP related though...

I dont know much about NLP. But I think i read somewhere that it can be done with text, and they use it in advertisments. An some well known PUA's do this to try and get you to buy their stuff.
Even if so i doubt its not half as effective as if you used it in person.
Try asking chocalate Thunder he's always posting about the NLP stuff.

Well, the first thing you will need to to is know what NLP is. NLP is a group term for certain things You need to ''change''somebody (I use the word change because no other word suits as much of the things NLP is used for then change).
A few things in it are:
-Rapport building (also a group name)
-Subliminal messeging. (which is also a group name)
-Sort of hypnosis. (If not real hypnosis)
-Anchoring.

I guess you will need to look into some warm reading and subliminal messeging.

That's part of what NLP can DO 3 Hands, but not what it IS. NLP isn't a technique, it isn't a trick, or a gimmick, or a way of manipulating people's minds, although that is all possible with NLP.

NLP, according to Dictionary.com is:

noun
the branch of information science that deals with natural language information


Basically what that means, is that NLP is merely the term given to the study of human communication (language doesn't necissarily mean spoken remember, there is body language).

You've been doing NLP your whole life without even knowing it. When your mom would use your full name as a child, with a deeper tone of voice and really slowly, you KNEW that she knew you had done something wrong; that's NLP. When you are walking down the street and see a couple of good looking girls and you smile and tip your hat and they know that you are saying, "Good day, beautiful!"; THAT is NLP.

If you are sending information to someone through some form of language, whether it be text, speech, visual, touch, then you are either consciously, or subconsciously using NLP. The same thing if you are recieving that information and interpreting it (which you do whether you do it consciously or not).

By paying attention to what you say, how you say it, how you stand and angle your body, etc, etc, you are able to consciously do NLP and you can better choose what you say and how you say it, in order to hypnotize people, or make them more inclined to agree with you, because not agreeing makes them feel uncomfortable. The second can be done sometimes by exchanging one word for another and leaving the entire rest of a sentence the same and is merely playing upon the way people's brains process information and the conotations given to certain words. Sometimes two words with the exact same meaning have different conotations to people, one negative and one positive, or maybe just LESS negative, thus making a person more willing to agree with what you are saying, simply by using the MORE positive word, or maybe if you're discouraging someone from a course of action, using the more negative word...

NLP also gives you the knowledge and ability to interpret what people are saying and doing better, so you notice IOIs that others miss (that's right, you started doing NLP when you started pickup and didn't know it...again). Maybe through paying attention to NLP and learning more about it, you can see IODs even before the girl notices she is losing interest and you can hook her again instead of losing her. Or maybe you'll be able to read people better and know what they think, so you know how to answer their questions, or what questions to ask.

NLP is a very powerful tool and can be used to do good things, or bad things, but again it's just a tool, in reality it is merely a word given to a branch of social science.

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Nlp is an advantage, but I wouldn't reccomend you jump into that get the pua game down first then the nlp game because nlp is more diffulcult...

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NLP is a valuable tool for PUAs to possess, don't even listen to that.

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lol hahaha

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Well for now I am a pre-med curriculum, journalism major, with a minor in women's studies at college. I switched over from business and psychology. Let's put it like this, I already know how to communicate, very effectively. Whether it be through writing, speaking, or body language, I don't have a problem with communication. People have told me I can convince them to eat their own shit (kinda good in a bad way...haha). However, one can always learn more, and always enrich their knowledge and being in life. I like learning. Not to sound like a pompous asshole, but Trojan, honestly, for all of our sake, please try to carry yourself with a bit more grace.

Talking down to people will get you nowhere in life. Talking down to people, whom you probably don't have the right to talk down to will just piss people off. That creates a bad overall situation for you. Don't take offense to what I am saying. Just read it and try to understand it. And, do realize that a smartass comment back just digs you into a deeper hole.

We write posts to spark discussion, spread knowledge, and gain commentary. We don't put things down for you, or anyone else for that matter, to come spit on us (speaking for most if not all other people in this forum).

Great post Rye Lee, i've really got to learn more about this stuff, fascinating

In my soapbox rant above, I forgot to mention that as well Rye haha.

That's ok, I don't post it for you guys anyways, I just like to listen to myself talk (or in this case type) cause sometimes I say some intelligent things that I didn't know I knew.

Lol.

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Yeah, PUA tactics turn us into narcissists hahaha. Many times warraneted though.