Yo,

Was fucking around on I-net with some girls.
1 girl said, lets go out sometime.
so i was playing around saying:

Me: sure, but you have to pay me 10 euros to go out with me.
or give me a pole dance

She: Well i don't gonna to do that, but then we don't go out together
(saying it in a playful way i think.)

Question now is how to respond,
go further with playful interaction or just settle and accepting the date and arrange a date?

(btw, i heard ya first need her on the phone, to take a girl out ya met on i-net, cause it looks more human.)

I think that was alot more cocky than funny.
I always get them on the phone first. It builds more comfort. Then when you meet its not like the first time you have spoken before, it means you know each other alittle better and know what each others voice sounds like. So i suggest getting her on the phone next and build some more comfort.

i wouldnt go with that pole dance line personally. she switched things around and is expecting you to buy into it that you want her to go out on a date with you instead of the other way around.

what i would do from here:

assume she says yes (thats why she is still talking to you) and just flat out say "i see that through your lack of a sense of humor you would love to go catch cofffee with me at X location. i'm busy thursday and friday night but how about friday afternoon?"

notice how you input dhv that you are a busy guy and you put her on the defensive. she can either accept or try to be defensive about your comment and fall into trying to convey value to you. either way she invests interest.

one thing you might want to do if you already have her phone number is to call her before hand so it builds more comfort. if you have a great personality then dont worry about the date. you will nail it hopefully. remember to not be cocky around her by saying stuff like pole dancing. be cocky funny only at some times and then offer a nice big smile. if you do it too much your an unpleasant asshole. if you do it a few times the right way, you are the funniest guy on earth.

best of luck on your date ;D

TJM88: LOL you are the most evil, you go from so frienly to straight evil like right away.

her: blah blahh blahhh

TJM88: no no no, you a very nice girl

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