| Let me start off by introducing myself - Hey, I'm Wilde, from London England.
Soo, here's the thing. I work part-time at a pub and this really beautiful HB9 works there too. She's got an ace personality, she's hot...obviously but she's 3 years older than me. She's 22 and i'm 19.
Now, that's only one problem and although she's said before "you're too young for me" (without, may I add, my obviously pursuing her, i.e. i'm thinking she either thinks i'm pursuing her or she's assuming I am or hinting to me I should be - get me?), I don't honestly think it's a massive problem. Sure I may be a tiny bit less mature than her but she's not the most mature girl ever either, and also i'm 6ft 4.5 in height, and a solid rugby player build so I don't look obviously younger than her.
I've never really flirted with her obviously, I guess through fear of rejection and I've never gamed her either although as it happens, I am a magician (not a nerdy sort) and so I've demonstrated value numerous times.
She can be quite touchy feely at times, although I've seen her like that with other guys too so it's kind of irrelevant, let me list quickly the things that have happened that make me think she may like me:
Firstly, I asked for her number once (long time ago) over a private facebook message, she told me she's not a big fan of giving her number out and didn't. Yet one day a few weeks later I had to text her regarding a matter of shifts and my boss told me to get her number off our office wall where all our numbers are written. Text conversations have since ensued and she's not complained or backed off from them.
Secondly, the other day I came into the pub socially with a few mates and she happened to be working. My friends were outside and I was talking exclusively to my boss over the bar but it was reasonably quiet and so she was standing basically opposite me, and over the course of a 3 minute or so conversation, I could see out of the corner of my eye her staring into my eyes.
Thirdly, I was talking to her today in fact, and asked if she had MSN or AIM, she said no but, and I quote "isn't facebook or texting instant enough for you? :p xx"
Fourthly, she often(ish) pays me compliments on my hair or the way I dress when i'm in socially.
Fifthly, we have our work Christmas party this Saturday night as we were so busy over the actual Christmas period, we couldn't have done anything then. It's a fancy dress party and the theme is Disney. So I was talking to her about what we should come as and she said she wants to come as Alice In Wonderland. We were then talking about the colour bow Alice wears in her hair (stupid, I know) and whilst I insisted it was blue, she insisted black, but said over text "if it makes you happy though, I'll wear a blue bow. xx" And whilst, last night as I was expressing doubts as to what I should come as, I asked for her opinion and she said "prince charming".
So there's a few things I think are (perhaps tenuously) pointing towards the fact she might like me.
The major thing that makes me think otherwise is on a fairly frequent occassion, a 23 year old guy let's call him Phil is in with a friend or two of his. He's fairly charismatic too and often jokingly rips it out of me regarding either my clothes or stupid things I may say. She seems to laugh at basically everything he says and sometimes seems as though she agrees, and although she always finds time to talk to him, she never comes up to me and is like "aww, sorry for earlier", it's like she's playing mean sometimes. I tend to also initiate all or most online or text conversations although face to face the balance is equal.
So, my questions are thus:
What do I do longterm to create and retain interest in me from her?
What do I do (if anything) this Saturday at the party?
Is there a routine I should be exercising?
Cheers,
Wilde
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