Hit a snag. Need some input. Obviously you guys can't imagineer everything here, but I'll try to be as objective as possible.

Ok, I guess this is coming more from frustration/confusion/wtf/venting more than anything, but here goes.

I date, alot. Very attractive, very successful women, but, BUT in a large majority of cases it doesn't get past the first few dates. I have no fucking clue why.

Just as an example, went out with very attractive, nearly model hot, business executive the other night. She didn't stop flirting/texting/calling all week. We were supposed to go kayaking or golf and a picnic, Sunday, but I got impatient and we had dinner with three hours notice instead, during the week. We go out, have fun, laugh ect, some kino. I text her later, tell her I had a great time, wouldn't mind catching a game, she says she had a great time and would love to go.

Then, nothing. Text back with information about the game, Nothing. WTF?


*NOT TRYING TO TOOT MY OWN HORN* I do get hit on and flirted with, quite a bit, but never with anyone I'd ever be interested in. I have a FwB type relationship with someone, but that gets old.

Alright, so honestly, I'd like a relationship at this point. I got sex, but it's with girls I don't consider the relationship type. I got plenty of relationships options, but again, with people I don't like, like that. I got no problem getting dates, it's just keeping things going. I've even asked a few who I stayed friends with after going out and none can come up with a reason. Mostly, it's just a "feeling"

So, I guess my question is, is there some incongruency between me dating and my everyday life, or are my standards too damn high, or wtf? Honestly, I'm to the point I'd like to start settling down. Just not sure what the hell. I could be in the wrong place for a question like this. Honestly, PU isn't good enough any more. I'm not a guru or a MPUA by any means, but I do ok, just god damn, enough already.

There has to be something I'm doing or maybe it's the people I'm choosing. Thoughts?

you can get a million girls that does not equate to success with the girl that is "the game changer" /the one you want as a gf.... Anyways i will give you my formula, you need to date multiple girls, like you have been doing, and then when you find that one keep dating, i think you are becoming outcome dependent (this is the one i want to make my gf) that will fuck up the whole thing. Second you need to fuck them dude, and you need to stop with the so call "dates" courtship activities, like dinner, golf and the other stuff you descrive, cause if you go in the so call "dates" women will screen you harder as potential bf, material, and that will either end up in "friend-zone" or delay sex. You want to fuck them first(focus on fucking them) and then work your way backwards to a relationship, i guarantee you, if you do what i tell you, you will find a gf. I never been single for more than 3-6 months my whole life... Do not make the mistake most guys make saying "this one is different" "this one is high quality" once you say shit like this you are done. Watch the video may help:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNovswAlmio[/youtube]

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Skills, long time, no talk. Good to see you're still pimpin. Despite the fact this guys seems like a dweeby douche that says "like" too much, most of this was pretty solid and helped. Thanks man.

Ok, I just finished the video. All I can say is: Fuck!

Maybe I am getting lazy and bored with my PU and life. It's god damn boring now. Plus, I am naturally introverted, so talking is a chore. Well shit. I even did what he calls "cherish". The fuck buddy texted me before a trip to come over and fuck, what did I do? Turned her down and watched Star Trek, because I didn't want to get weird with the new one.


Well, shit. Alot to think about.

pu life, i don't understand what that is for me all this stuff is about growth and self development, about being the best man i can be, a small part is seduction... But i think you may try to say that you are kind of bored of being with different girls. And i can truly relate to that, much more meaningful and better to have a gf, imo. But you need to screen hard and have the right girl in your life...

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