ok here i go
i met this girl she was from london
i was at a bar/hookah bar i was smoking hookah and had my cuzin with me.
i was smoking hookah and i am a good smoker so i can make rings and tricks and may other things with the effects of smoke.
she was a 8.5 and had a friend that was a NASTY 3 i mean like oh my god man it would scare anyone.
i did not approach when they walked in because i didnt want to leave my boy he didnt know much at all
so she met some people infront of our table and sat there and was dancing and smoking some hookah.
as i looked up from my iPhone i saw her dancing ....she was hot..i wanted her. i smiled at her face and she returned the smile biting in the mouthpiece of the hookah tip as she kept smoking and proceeded with the dancing. so i look over to my boy (NO GAME NOT EVEN TO SAVE HIS LIFE) and i was trying to get re affirmation that she is hot and im not halluscniating. so i get up and go to bathroom checking her out through out the time she would turn look smile toss her hair and bite her lips occasionally and keep dancing. so when i came back the dj was playing (i aint got no worries by lil wayne) so i used that as a gateway she had two guys around her 1 ugly bitch one decent black girl and a pimp as lesbo chick. so i played it in i started singin the i aint got no worries blah blah blah i directed the singing towards that black girl and lesbo because they were gettting down. so when i am with my boys they are family and family always comes first evern GIRLS so i told that black girl which was a 8 but id say 7 bec she was short hey thats my cuzin over there show him a good time (notice i didnt even ask her to i demanded i won her over by dancing and singing with her and involved no kino in that process) so i put my arms around her and told her to do so. she went to him and gave him a lap dance and i even convinced her to kiss him. so back to my london babe so i went up to her i had the shitiest opener on earth which was hey whats up and she was like heeeeyy! and i was like i saw you dancing your not that good you know .. she got mad and turned around (fml moment) so then i said "i kid i kid" she insisted that she knew how to dance and then her accent was there made me want her more i was like whats up with scotish accent even though i knew it was from london or english for the matter ok. she was like oh im from london and i was like your lying to me. this was a huge IOI she was like want me to show you my passport. and this would even been even more huge of an IOI then she proceeded and pulled it out and showed me. so i said why are you in america then she talked about how she is here for her phsychology master n shit and proceeded and complemented her intelliceuality and stated breifly my major also then i told her i need to go and look after my cuzin (my boy) she paused before she said something i told her i need someone to look after me though and she smiled and told me i am here and i wont take off my eye off of you. so i was like give me a kiss and then she said i have to earn it and i responded now how am i supposed to do that then she turned her shoulder tilting it and saying idk with her body motion. so i kino her and grab her from shoulder by throwing my arm around her and then point with that same hand after taking it off her shoulder to my cheeck and smiled she kissed me there and then went to dance.... (if you guys want me to finish the story i can but ill skip now to my MAIN POINT OF THIS THREAD) so we made out fingered her infront of her friend watching took her and she gave me her number and wanted to give me the address but her friend was being a major cockblock and i had wingman to back me up so i left the club and called her twice and nothing then texted her saying
"where are you baby call me"
waited an hour she responds
"im staying in bed with my friend tongith since she is alone but we can speak tommorow"
i replied automatically
"its ok i understand dont dream too much about me"
she responded 15 min later saying
"i already am baby, goodnight"
night is over
i wake up to her text
"so you think english girls are still bad dancers"
i replied
"i gotta say you did prove me wrong"
no answer....
i sent another message
"are you coming so i can see you today"
she responded an hour later stating
"im still in bed with my friend im tired haha"
then i repsonded impatinetly again
"so are you going to spend all day with your friend"
then no answer and 2 hours later i sent again
"i want to see you today"
she responds
"hey sorry i was watching a film with my friend and im not feeling like going out today maybe we can talk during this week or tommorow"
i got fucking pissed off but kept my cool
"i was just thinking about us cuddling and watching a movie and me sharing with you my new years resolution"


nothing since that this all happened between yesterday and today last text she sent was 5 hours ago so trying to catch advice fast to get back up with the advantage let me know asap.

You already messed up
These make you come across as needy/desperate. The frame should always be that you're the prize "you should come and see me today" should have been your first message, instead you almost asked permission to see her (urgh). It's probably too late to rescue this but I wouldn't send any messages and let her come back to you (she will if she's interested), if she does get in touch make sure you control the frame, make her wonder what she's missing out on and make yourself unavailable not desperate.

i sent her a text a bit ago elaborating about the night telling her that she did pick her frined after all haha aha and that she should come have some starbucks with me today in evening turns out she is a teacher too

also here is convo just now
"im actually teaching at the moment lol"
me-"so your a teacher you didnt tell me that bit of detail so can u give me extra credit then baby lets go somewhere have a coffee if its later in the everning we can make it lunch or dinnfer"
her-i am a teacher doing my masters what aout you?
me-i am working on my physiscs degree and study of human interactions and advertising company haha you should have that coffee or lunch with me do something better for your evening"
her " i cant tongitht maybe we could grab a coffee after school tommorow"
me "sounds good to me 330 or 4 is good for me and we can go spend time watch a movie and what r ur plans tonight"

Man too needy, seriously calm down and play it a lot more cooler.

so what do i do then tell me tell me some content to right