Having perused the forums for the past few days, i've been given insight into how different people do things as a PUA.

Some posters have impressed me, others have left me cringing my face off.

I'll say this right now, so as not to confuse my intent. Those who only do this to get laid and manipulate women for selfish reasons, you should consider the thought that you're actually fucking clownshoes. I envisage PUAing as something to better yourself with in all areas, to become that Alpha Male, not to manipulate women into bed for the sake of bragging rights or ego.

That alpha male designation is what i strive for most, and to better myself as a person. That ideal means much more to me than seducing women, although i admit i'm not averse to that part of the PUA.

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respect


agreed.

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Good that you've caught that. That's called Social Dynamics in a nutshell, and those of us that are the most serious, that's what we are doing here. Picking up women is just a natural part of that.

Lol, being a pua is who you are, not what you do. I embody all the characteristics of pua, so girls gravitate towards me...so I guess i'm not sleazy at all because i'm such a pua that every girl is throwing themselves at me...

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this is NOT me

I was actually here for punch and pie...but aparently they ran out

No seriously though, the people who are here and the most active are here for those reasons (the right ones). Picking up women is actually a small part of being a PUA...so much so that im trying to come up with a better term/acronym for it when i decide to start really openly telling people thats what i am.

To this point im stuck on just telling people i study social dynamics...but i want something with a little more bang.

BTW welcome to the forums.

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"Be the same, only better."

Damnit, what about the fish & chips?

I'm not here to pick up girls, either. I really couldn't care less if I ever got another girlfriend or not...I'm here for a deeper understanding of social dynamics.

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Which you can't reveal to the years of youth
Except to say it isn't worth a dime

It's interesting you metion Social Dynamics, as i think it's the crux of pick up. Once i've learned a few things about it, no doubt i can use my natural charm to devastating effect.

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Exactly. And it's so much more than just picking up girls.

Funny thing, when I read this, I was agreeing with you so much on everything up until then that I totally felt a hearty dash of NLP working on my brain and I swear the next time I fuck a girl I'm probably gonna end up thinking about clown shoes....sonofabitch...lol.

Welcome to the forum Rimmer, always good to see people with similar moral codes.

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~ Rye

bro I think this is one of those moments where you don't worry about anyone else but yourself, don''t care what other people are doing in the field...If you don't like girls being disrespected be glad that your the only guy out there thats not doing it....

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