Anyone seen Cajun on that "Keys to the VIP show"? (if not check it on youtube - its fucking awesome)

One thing I did notice is that he doesn't smile, ever.

Discuss....

There are many styles, you can play the cool guy part, never smiling and such, or you could be extrovert and smile at other people. Both way are good. Personally I like the latter, because besides getting women I would also like to have some fun with others.

I find it rather interesting, cause there are so many people spouting "you must smile", "you must be high energy" and he clearly isn't either. He's unbelievably chill and totally comfortable.

He smiles dude it's hard to see on that show. I'd prob call it more of a smirk though. He's a smirker.

Ya I know what you mean, he sort of does this "raises one corner of his mouth" kind of thing....

i love the smirk, for me smiling=neediness... i also like the wink, and the lip stuff llcool j does...

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He is always smirking that's way more powerful that smiling

We have had an extensive discourse on this smile or not to smile thread a few months ago in which I disagreed with the resident body language expert I wont re-open this can of worms.

Smirking is great I usually suggest AFCs stay away from smiling as much as possible because it will just encourage them to fall right back into their supplicating/nice guy AFC frame. As always experienced guys can do whatever the fuck they want. In Cajuns case he could smile or not smile and still be a monster PUA.

I smile when the girl smiles. Or if she's being bitchy/shit testing me

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If you have a great smile you can use it as a tool. What you want to do is not show it at all upon initial approach. Engage the target with a straight seductive face, then once the conversation is flowing, when she says something, witty, funny, or flirtatious, you give her a smile. The smile is a reward for her, this will trigger a positive chemical release, then you wait for another opportunity, then do it again.

This will begin an association process, she will start to become compliant and try to get you to smile. Each time you smile it will trigger the endorphin release, eventually she will crave your smile, in a way she will become addicted to your smile. Keep using it as a reward and you can control her frame.

Ideally, you want to use it for when she says or does anything flirtatious. It's a great way to keep her in that frame.

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Yeah sorry about that, I just feel strongly that smiling is a huge asset. The thing that needs to be taken into consideration is whether there is attraction or not. At some point smiling can be a weakness and at others a strength. When the attraction starts and seduction begins smirking is a far better at this point in the interaction.

When you are just starting to talk a smile is fine, when your bodies start turning toward each other (Perper's second phase) smiling should be cut back and smirking or dead pan is more effective for building sexual tension. One thing you need to take into consideration is her response curve, how much sexual tension can you build before she walks away? Some women can't handle a ton of sexual tension, so you have to break it with smiles. You make the tension longer and longer before smiling, then the smile disappears.

In reality it doesn't matter whether your a smiler or not, your behavior has to be congruent with you. If you are a joker, then smile, if you are consistently serious, and smirk here and there I suggest maintaining that behavior. Whether you smile or not doesn't change whether you get the girl, it's up to you to know when to escalate your behaviors and eliminate comfort and move to tension.

Your body language surrounding the smile(including eye contact is the biggest strength of confidence). Smiling doesn't make you look less confident, its your body language surrounding it that makes you appear confident or not. How you hold your head, shoulders, arms, stance, move, eye contact, all contribute more to illustrating your confidence then a smile.

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^ that, very well explained

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People seem to have the wrong Idea about smiling.

Smiling is an expression of happiness. Happiness is a positive emotion. Being happy makes other people happy.

People seem to think smiling kills sexual tension. But that is not entirely the case. It is more smiling for no reason. Smiling for no reason is incongruent and a form of validation seeking (Oh I'm soo happy to be around you). Smile when you feel like smiling. Not when you should, just when you feel.

In terms of smiling and not smiling in game, the way 60yoc says it, keep a pokerface.

Pokerface does not mean expressionless. It means to not react to anything she says, not a huge reaction anyway. By that I mean, tells a joke, You laugh because you think its she'll feel bad if you don't. The poker face is the idea that, any expression is validation seeking.

In general, just be congruent with your ACTUAL feelings. If you feel like smiling smile, Don't smile for anyone else's sake

I know Mystery says that smiling is an alpha male trait. But really, smiling only show that you feel comfortable in the environment you are in at the moment and dont have a care in the world. If you can find some other way to show that, you are fine. Oh and it also show that you are non threatening.

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