After gaming for a year and have trying both methods I prefer low energy better, I don't know with you guys, but I want your opinions on this. I have made a poll to see if I am the only one that do Low Energy.

When I was on a boarding school for a year I discovered the high energy mode. It made me get plenty of friends, but the problem is.. I was not attractive at all. I didn't get laid or anything related to sex.

When the school got a new girl, I tried to turn to the Low energy mode, it was very hard because the whole school knew me as a high energy dude. But although, I tried the low energy mode on her in a weekend with some other dudes. And she liked me more from the other dudes that were nearbly. And the good thing is that one of my friends were on high energy the whole time. And yet though she liked me better.

I'm not saying that high energy won't give good results. But I'm just prooving that low energy gave me better results.

The problem with this line of thinking is that you're so focused on what you're "being," you forget the most fundamental component of seduction: open and honest self-expression.

Instead of saying, "I'm gonna try being high energy and see what kinda results I get," or, "Being low energy gets me better results," why not see what just unabashedly being yourself gets you? Nothing is more transparent than somebody who ISN'T doing that, and acting in a way that aligns with who you actually are will always make you appear more confident and attractive to the opposite sex.

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870

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i agree with sexaddict and 870, but for example in sales and clubbing high energy tends to work a bit better...but like 870 says if you are faking high energy with a woman won't work too well, also high energy is to open and hook, seduction the energy has to be low and seductive, as sexaddict says you need to be a camaleon, and adapt and calibrate to every situation... But as 870 says a women can smell if you are putting on a show...

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high energy, she feels your confident

I prefer low energie.. Most of the lasses will think you are a smooth/cool guy. But you've to find your own balance.

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I like constructive comments in all ways. I really like to read every single post from the mPUA's on this community. But Sexaddict, when we are talking about having a social proof. Then what energy is best to behave?

There are many situations, I'm not talking about the girls, but the situation I'm in right NOW. I'm trying to create a social circle, what will work best on girls? What if me and a girl next to me aren't saying a single word on a party, and all our friends are on high energy. Then its about being different.. and by that, I will be the only one being on low energy, how does that sound?

There are many situations you know, I'm not thinking over what to be, but I'm focusing on all situations that will face me.

High energy is good depends on who you are, and for me I wouldn't say that its good because it caused me so many problems in my schools.

Low energy will get me more attractive, I'm very chilly when talking to girls, I move my head slowly, being available to talk with at any time. I find it being waay easier, to be low energy. But when we are talking about clubs then of course in the most situations high energy would be a better idea.

Keep commenting, the poll will never end though. I love all this critism you people are giving me, it means very much, I appriciate it all.

Cheers

I think like most things this is fairly personal and individual. Me, in my general life I'm quite low energy, can be quiet, very chilled. If I'm gaming a girl, or even if I'm just doing something like meeting new people for the first time, I consciously try to up my energy levels. This makes me more talkative, helps me to appear more friendly and approachable etc. etc.

Don't get me wrong - when I'm in my 'natural' energy zones, I'm still all of those things, just perhaps a little bit more in my shell, and a little bit more withdrawn. Consciously upping my energy levels helps me get out of that.

If, on the other hand, you're a very loud extroverted person who is normally the loudest in the room etc. you may be better trying to lower your energy slightly so you come off as less of a show-off 'joker' type and more of just a fun guy.

Of course it not only depends on you, but also on the girl. Callobration is important. If you're in a group/talking to a girl who is high energy, then if you're low energy sitting back quietly, you may get overlooked. On the other hand, if you're in a low energy setting, or talking to a girl who is perhaps a bit low energy/shy, then being really high energy and loud may scare her off a bit.

In general, I think it's always best to be yourself, but be aware of your surroundings.

I tend to be more high energy, but I feel like your energy level should come naturally depending on your environment.

If you're at a nightclub, for instance, I would assume that you would be more upbeat and not moping around. In contrast, if you're picking up at a cafe mid afternoon, you don't want to look like Taz the Tasmanian Devil on coke. Just calibrate and be whatever feels suitable and relevant.

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xD I found the coked up Taz comparison to be hilarious, good job.

Tho back to the topic, yea, while I'm more of a low energy person I have no problem being high energy if the environment calls for it.

I think matching her energy is the best

but not to exceed anymore than that.

Soncheese x

I think its largely dependant on your environment and your personality.

In general in any environment I'll be close to the energy levels of everyone, however still on the lower energy side, just because its my nature. I also find low energy to seem to have a more of a seductive vibe to it, not talking as much, not fidgetting, not competing over the noise and getting closer instead.

For me low energy >high energy.

If having problems talking to girls i would advice being on low energy so you can be a bit mysterious but that require that you have to be confident and alpha when it comes the girl is talkimg to you.

Bump.