Life of game - always gaming whenever you see a girl you want to approach, you approach, anywhere, anytime.

Sarge Time - periods of sarging, e.g. i am going out to sarge for an hour

Which one is better? who does what? pro/cons? realistic? implications?

I have tried many times to be gaming all the time, whenever i am out the house i must approach if I like a girl but i found this to put a lot of pressure on myself, and solo i get inside my head too much, and ultimately end up being disappointed with myself, leading to harsh self talk e.g 'im a chode boohoooo'

Instead i normally set myself a time frame and go out just to sarge, thats the sole purpose (usually with others, sometimes solo). Thus, i will go out and to the club and sarge for an hour at least, or I will go out to town/ the shops to sarge for an hour. I have found with this i can get warmed up and get some momentum going, it also takes the pressure off in normal life.

On some level though 'sarge time', i.e. setting yourself periods of time just for sarging, is counter productive. Yes it will force you to approach but you almost detach that mode from your normal existence, it's as if you just turn on pick up mode, turn on another person. It does not intergrate it into your personality, are you really becoming that guy, that guy who is naturally attractive?

On the other hand, how do you get momentum going, how do you warm up socially if you are doing the 'life of game' approach. Are you always just socially awesome, maybe some people are, they are just very happy and social and can 'sarge' constantly through daily life. Also how would you spike your state up? This comes back to where your state set point is, how happy are you in general. You can certainly get on a roll if you have an intense period of sarging.

Arguably clubs are the best place for pick up - more sets, hotter sets, harder sets, forces you learn quicker, better chance of pulls. If this was the case would you need 'life of game' you could just set club time as pick up and be done with it.

But 'life of game' puts so much pressure (i find), it would be interesting to know if any guys just sarge throughout their daily lives, just go about life and pick up girls whenever they encounter them. That for me is the better goal.

well no-one seems interested in this thread and tbh after i wrote it i already knew the answer, i probably knew the answer before that i just didn't want to admit it to myself. It's life of game, becoming that attractive guy for real, i will be trying to make this transition in a couple of weeks, to the full extent.

I game all the time. Why not?

It's who I am now. I was at a funeral last week, and gamed the hotel clerk. I go to the grocery store, and I always go to the checkout line of a chick I can game whenever possible. I walk aisles I don't need to go down just to meet a woman. I always try to surround myself with people I can potentially game.

And - I like who I am.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Life of Game as you put it, is something you work towards rather than an option.

Even clubs were (in pua) initially only used because there were lots of girls compared to malls and the day time. You gotta remember 1st generation gamers were probably the biggest nerds that ever existed, so they weren't exactly 'clubbers'.