Hi,

I was dating this girl for around 2-3 months, after that we broke up (her choice) then been on and off for like another 2 months, its been about 2 months and I still can't move on...She is the first girl I ever kissed and lost my v to. The problem is, we live near by and have close mutual friends so avoiding seeing her is not possible. Recently I've been more distracted by general life stuff and kept my mind off things and started feeling better, slowly but surely, the longest I havent contacted her is 10 days, she moved on. Recently, I saw her on a night out with our mutual friends and she was slightly distant from me than before (no surprise) but since that night I couldn't sleep. I never thought it would be this hard, I really don't know what to do, its affecting my game and killing my confidence. I understand I have to try my best to stay away but given the fact that we live in the same building means I am always looking at her window in my way in and she stays in my mind. Please anyone over there tell me how I can feel better. Really didn't think it would take this long. Thanks in advance

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I got so emotionally fucked I don't even know how to rebuild my inner game.

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Inner game is ALL you need, then create your own routine

Don't listen to anything that disagrees with this:

"The only cure to one woman is more women."

It is seemingly ironic.


It was only 2 months which is not long at all. Even if it was a matter of years... meh. But still, emotions are more powerful than reason. For that, I cannot simply tell you not to feel how you do. You can control reason, but not always emotion. Why do think men have to show that they are confident in stead of telling women about how they are confident?


Anyway I know exactly how you feel and I honestly can't give you a magic solution. You think other women are dull and wont fill a void in you until... well... you find another woman that makes you feel EXACTLY how the last girl did. Then you either repeat the sad cycle or take the advice for face value and realize that there are many more fish in the sea.

Even if you still have the feelings, keep fishing. Don't stop until the feelings go away even if it means not stopping! Hope this helps because it is all true.

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Thanks Don. The break up was complicated. I wish I wouldn't hear her name as often or bump into her as often. Truth is, I honestly don't like the girls in my area, they up themselves, hard to talk to and immature so they don't deserve my attention. One thing for sure, is that I realise where I acted AFC, wish things didn't end like that but it didn't so I can learn that on a subconcious level I will never make the same mistakes again with the next lucky girl I get.

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"I honestly don't like girls in my area. She is the only one. Omg I want her"

That's your problem. You're acting AFC. At least go out and flirt with other decent looking chicks. Just the simple act of flirting will do a lot. The further you go, the better.

This is normal you are not a robot, is ok dude, it will hurt there is nothing you can do but let time pass... here is a video watch it i think it will help a bit:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNovswAlmio[/youtube]

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