Here is a perfect example of why I love PUA. I am out at dinner with 2 of my friends(both girls), another girl I barely know and some guy i don't know.
So I have the whole table laughing, DHVing etc, and my friend danielle says jokingly that she thought I was gay when we first met. So I ask the kid, do I seem gay, and he decides to take a shot saying I do seem 'flamboyant.'
But, I wasn't mad, I laughed it off because all three girls were paying attention to me, laughing at me, and having a good time with ME, while he sat at the end of the table hardly talking.

Beautiful! Welcome to the forum Justright, that's the kind of stuff I love to hear and what I love about PUA too!

I just got back from my xmas vacation and several nights that I was with my parents, we hung out with my step-dad's oldest friend and his "partner" and even went to their party on xmas eve (it was all straight people aside from them just for future reference). Now I'm pretty good friends with both of them and they love me, so when I first saw them at the party, or when I was leaving to catch my flight home at my parents' boxing day party, they hugged me and my dad's friend even kissed me on the cheek. There were a ton of people around, but because I just hug them back and we're vocal about being friendly and everyone knows we're just being friendly, then no thoughts of being gay even cross their minds.

Same goes for when people make comments insinuating that you may be gay, you just laugh it off, be vocal and don't get shy or intimidated and those comments won't have any power.

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