Is there something like being too dominant and can anyone relate to my story?

I recently started to take massive control of my own life. Instead of listening to feelings/conventions and advice from others, i now fuck girls like there's no tomorrow and spread my identity without any censure. THIS IS WHO I AM SO THIS IS WHAT I DO.

my dad
My dad has been doing this for years already and i recently started to see/accept the simmilarities between us. I now start to talk to him about girls and he brought up this story about a girl he's seeing. She's an extremely dominant/intelegent girl but my dad would never allow her to take control. Result; drama/fights

Me recently
Although i'm getting more and more succes with women i notice a change in the interactions i have. Where in the past i could get lost when interacting with a girl and just lose control, i now have the opposite. When i meet a girl (new or not) i enter her presence and just grab the lead and take control. Somethime this works out just fine and the girl would follow. But many many times they become transverse and the interaction becoms a competition. Or a battle for control. I have girls attracted to me but i undergo a lot of resisstance in general (bars/dates/fb's).


Just another girl i'm seeing
I've always loved girls with strong personality's and she's like that. The first time we met up together we got naked and exchanged orgasms(after a lot of LMR). We had no sex because we had no condoms. However she was glad we had no condoms(probably some more LMR shit).

So i went to her house last night (she invited me) and we had dinner with together her best friend/roommate. Afterwards (she knows i see other girls) we went to bed together and i wanted to turn her on. She became horny as hell but she told me she was in her period and i was not allowed to touch her pussy anywere near. I thought this was some LMR shit so i turned her on more. Again resistance and we now start to argue.

Her quotes
- You always want control
- Have you ever had a girl that didn't want sex with you?
- I believe you can fuck me like no other but i rather please myself.
- All you men are like blablabla

I spent hours and hours to make her give herself to me but she seem to have a principle. I turned into every possible guy to see what would break trough; sincere/soft/sensitive/rational/offencive/agressive and back to understanding and sencere. NOTHING WORKED


Questions
- Is this a girl that does not want to give herself to an arrogant/dominant guy like me?
- How can i handle myself being like this without things turning into battles all the time?
- Can anyone relate to this and see what i could change?
- I this is resistance what to do with it?

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HI

Just happened to read through your whole journal bro so thought it would be only appropriate to reply here

Questions
- Is this a girl that does not want to give herself to an arrogant/dominant guy like me?

The fact you've already had sexual activity with her suggests that you can get her so I would probably say she will give herself to you at some point. She already has to an extent.

- How can i handle myself being like this without things turning into battles all the time?

Maybe adopt more of a fun state? Sounds like you have quite an aggressive/dominant thing going on which is fine but I think maybe you're being too outcome dependent? I'd try and focus more on just enjoying the process of interaction, focus on making yourself and her feel good, rather than seeking any particular outcome.

- Can anyone relate to this and see what i could change?

Basically what I just said above.

- I this is resistance what to do with it?

Is it not possible she actually was on her period?

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS TOO DOMINANT.

I feel obligated to post , because you started following my advice and reached this point.

Like I said before this is the pinnacle of masculinity.

Being a man means more than just pussy. Let me explain :

1. BE DIRECT , DOMINANT and SEXUAL.
2. DON'T BE AFRAID TO WALK AWAY.
3. DO NOT CHANGE NO MATTER HOW MUCH BLAME AND CRITICISM YOU GET FROM HER.

If i was in your situation I would do the following :

1. Do not start arguing. NEVER.

2. Persist , but if she really doesn't want sex , you tell her : "Stop wasting my fucking time , kid " and leave.

I am 100% sure that if she really wants you , the following days you will be drowning in pussy from her.

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You have to CALIBRATE... work on calibration you have to change and adapt to the type of girl and situation...Do not be so unflexible on whatever method you are following, read the girl and were she is coming from, understand the girl, and like a chess match, play the situation... Now if nothing is happening, is ok to walk away...

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there is being dominant, and then there is being domineering, most people women and men alike are generally not attracted to domineering people, strong and uncontrollable, rather then insecure, controlling and arrogant

TO STELLAR
Dude i see you reply to my post and i now realise i´m slowly getting into your mindset! WTF probably faster than i could realise.

About the way i left
In the morning i gave it one more try! i grab her cunt and i feel she´s getting hot, however after 30 seconds she pushed my hand away and that was the moment i gave up. I ignored her the entire morning and i demanded she looked up the scedual for my train so that i could leave fast. She offered me food-drinks 20 times now and is scretching her face and touching her hair continuously. She´s asking me many questions but i don't look at her, got the info and left in a sortof "i don't know what's wrong with you but i'm outta here" vibe

Me in general
I'm writing about this mindset because it brings out a part of me that sometimes contradicts my ethics and i'm getting more and more serious (not so much fun making). On the other hand i have 3 more girls lined up this week that all invited themselfs to my place. So the mindset might pay off after all.

Funstate
Stellar i have to ask you about the advice Lockdown gave. You don't smile right! Since i stopped smiling i stopped having fun.

during day
Oh yeh and girls notice me a lotttt more. When i walk the streets i feel like some escaped gorilla. Stelar is this your mindset all the time? Because right now i'm in public transfer looking at a girl and i'm actually afraid to open her because i want to be soooo direct i'd ask for sex in seconds or push it sooo hard i might be confused with a rapist.


TO LOCKDOWN
yeh maybe she was in her period you might be right. But still she had this offensive tone and projected those ""tfuuu let me be the first girl that rejects you" vibes.

Adapting funstate feels like a good focus for me! Thnx

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HI

If you're not having fun man what's the point? I know for some guys they are all about being stone cold alpha fuck beasts but seriously, you said yourself you're not having fun anymore, so really what is the point?

I like to focus on being playful but dominant, seeing everything as essentially amusing and non-important. It's a vibe that works for me a lot personally. This isn't the same as thinking 'nothing matters' just that any given outcome won't be enough to affect your core positivity and confidence.

I do not go out to have fun , I either get pussy or shot.

If you want to have fun and follow your ethics then do it ,

Since you are using this "mindset" I see that women can't get enough of you and this is the mindset that makes them wet.

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Bottom line is :

You want fun , go out , get drunk , slap asses , DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY !

You want pussy , go out with the mindset : I either get laid as I want or I am gone.

You want to fuck 100 women ?

LET ME TELL YOU THIS :

WHEN YOU'VE FUCKED THOSE 100 WOMEN YOU WILL FEEL EVEN MORE SATISFIED KNOWING YOU FUCKED THEM AS YOU WANTED ; ON YOUR TERMS.

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I don't think it's an either or between 'get pussy' or 'have fun'. I have fun and get pussy in the process. If whatever any individual is doing isn't bringing them satisfaction/happiness then what's the point?

The point is, sadly, that some men base their happiness and self-worth by how many women they claim to have slept with on an internet forum.

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These hos ain't loyal

Some trolls base their happiness off of this.

Hahahah I know what you sayd was just rethorical, but let me reply with; "READ THE FIRST PAGE OF MY JOURNAL"

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HI

Do not reply to their posts. Let them do their thing.

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BINGO.

If you JUST want to increase your score... that's like pissing yourself in a dark suit - you get a warm feeling but nobody else knows.

ENJOY the time. If she thinks it's JUST about sex every time... why bother? You make it a contest with her. Make it a team approach - we're in this together... Dude, follow her IOIs, escelate, and monitor the LMR. Use Style's approach about starting, stopping, freeze-out, etc...

You can get anything you want - and keep them coming back - if you read them properly.

Stelar's shit works - I kid you not. You just have to adapt your OWN game. If that works for you - go for it. If you don't give a fuck at all about women, be that guy.

I don't give a fuck about women either... they're practice - each and every one. They provide a warm body when I want one.... BUT - I enjoy their company and want to make it fun for them. I like to hit my re-treads (that know how to fuck) about once a month.

You get more flies with honey!

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Don't tell them it works , tell them it doesn't work , that should satisfy them.

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