Look, if you literally do not like the dance floor, then don't worry about it. However there are quotes from notable Masters of Pick Up that might make your fear the dance floor.
http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/200 ... -by-craig/
Seduction Chronicles features an entry about the Dance Floor and this is relevant to a recent outing I had with KeepinItReal (KIR).
On a late-night weekday sarge, our last stop was a very swanky NYC hotel with an awesome club on the lobby level. It was loud, I'm a low-talker, so it was easily too loud for me to approach anyone. The dance floor was jumpin' and the music was good. KIR and I agreed that we might as well hit the dance floor.
I fancy myself a good dancer, but I've never ever had luck on the dance floor. I'm learning now that despite my moves, my poor body language is still very apparent. This time at the club was no different. KIR however seemed to do everything right and had an easy time of dancing with any girl he chose to approach. With my new thirst for knowledge I began to compare his style to my own.
Here is a list of things I do improperly on the dance floor:
-I don't smile enough (this is a problem i've always had)
-I don't make eye contact. Not a problem when talking to someone, but on the floor, I suppose it's a new fear of rejection I will overcome.
-I don't take up enough space. I keep my arms close to my body so that I don't hit anyone, get in anyone's way.
-I keep my arms low. Not only do my arms have to go out wider, but they need to go up higher, above my head. This will attract attention and it's a sign that I'm having a blast on the dance floor. I clearly noticed KIR with his hands above his shoulders most of the time and sometimes higher.
KIR, the moment he hit the dance floor, was smiling, clearly enjoying himself and drew attention through wide and tall confident movements. So after noticing that about him, I gave it a shot and sure enough a girl we saw earlier entered the floor to dance with me, left, and came back with her friend and let me dance with them both for a bit.
I need to try this again to make sure it's not just my imagination, but it certainly agrees with what I've seen from my tall goofy white friend from high school who makes an ass out of himself on the dance floor in a confident wild attention-grabbing manner and always gets to dance with ladies.
P.S. I definitely wanna go out and sarge more because I have a trip to San Francisco in February, and it would be great to meet some ladies when I go out there.
P.P.S. KIR number closed the hottest girl in that club and he said he'd put a field report out. I will get on his case to do this.
CHAT