It's one thing to go to a bar or a club and work your game there. You're at a place where social interaction is encouraged and accepted. And the girls there are open to the possibility of being opened. But it's quite another thing to pick up a girl on a crowded train at 8:30am or on the street walking along the sidewalk during rush hour. I see hot young professional girls everyday on the train, and on the sidewalks of my city. But it's tough and here's why:

The train is a tough place to try to work game because it's usually very crowded and 1) I don't want other people hearing what I say and 2) The girl has no 'escape route' so to speak. So that leaves me with the girls on the street. It takes a lot of courage (I gots plenty of it fortunately) to walk up to some random chic on the street and get her phone number. It can be done, but it is extrememly difficult. The first challenge is to not appear as some creep and make her feel uncomfortable. The second challenge is the kind of girl she is. These girls are post grad types or attorneys rushing off to some 9-5 job. So they are pretty smart and savy and know if someone is bullshiting them or not. The third challenge is time. They are rushing off to their job or home.

The question for any of you who might have some suggestions about how to pull this off-How do you open up a smart girl on the street and get her number in a matter of a minute to a couple of minutes?

Chics at bars, clubs, bookstores, coffeehouses, etc=easy to game.

Snagging a hot girl on the street is where it's at players.

Suggestions?

Hey Big Daddy,

I can see you definitely have the right mindset with this thing. And I'll be honest with you. Cold approaches are the toughest. My forte is at house parties, weddings, b-days, etc., My greatest challenges are at clubs and with complete strangers in the street.

I would say you best bet is with opinion openers and thick skin. I usually try the "hey, can I ask for your opinion with something... it'll just take a second. I'm new to the area and was wondering if u knew of some fun places to hang out at." And take it from there.

Of course, I always have a canned story to go with any response.

Hope this helps. But you're fighting a good fight, because cold approaches are the hardest.


Respectfully,

M

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Yes, First thing you need to do is remove your limiting beliefs about being on the train etc, and having people "hear you" the reality and (I have this fear too at times) is that it doesn't matter if other people hear you because they will never see you again. Also, the fact that it's crowded will actually make her feel safe she doesn't need an escape route. There is something internally flawed in your mindset if you think girls need to have a way to escape from you.

As far as picking up women on the street, it's easier than in the club. Very direct game usually works wells, not in an overbearing weird way. Just upbeat, energetic and optimistic. If you're a man that goes for what he wants in life, and you see a hot woman you want to approach - I know it sounds crazy but if delivered with the right body language (body not facing her entirely) Lit up, excited face, or a casual, whatever - "Hey you're cute =]" will work, almost every time. Just be a man about it - the trick is to say it loud enough that she will hear but keep your body language not entirely all over her. Once she stops, throw a slight a3 qualifier - once she bites shift your body towards her and start conversation as usual.

It also helps to throw in a high five or fist pound when you first open and tell her she's cute.

This is field tested multiple times with lays.

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