| sorry if anyone responded to my original post, but it got deleted and I never got to check what people said.
There's this girl I met at college 3-4 months ago that just happens to be from my home town. We started out as good friends (I also k-closed her once) but recently we have been getting alot closer. We've been having good conversation, have cuddled and watched movies together, and have dinner/lunch together frequently. I have also f-closed her twice within the last month. I'm really into her and I could definitely see her becoming my gf in the near future. If possible, I'd like to take our relationship to the next level (possibly gf) before we go back to school because I know there are 1 or 2 guys that live in her dorm that are trying to get with her (and probably have a reasonable shot).
Over thanksgiving break, I had some parties at my house and she stopped by. On the final night she drove her friend home and came back later to help me clean up. We ended up chilling in my hot tub where I k-closed her. When I got back to school she expressed interest in using the hot tub again.
So Christmas break finally rolls around this past Friday. None of my friends are home yet and none of hers are home either. She works alot, so I told her to tell me when she was free and we'd hang out. She says Sunday night, I tell her to come over and use the hot tub and she gets all excited etc. Sunday night comes and she flakes, saying she's too tired to come over after work. She invites me to her place though and I watch a movie there. No close because her family was around. She says she might come over my house tomorrow.
Monday (the next day) she never got back to me to tell me whether she wants to come over. I hit her up on AIM and ask her if she wants to come over, and she says yes. Things went really well. We watched tv/talked for a few hours. Eventually we started making out heavily and at one point she even grabbed my head and pulled me into her when I wasn't kissing her. We ended up having sex (going at it two times) followed by a kiss goodbye.
When she was leaving, I asked her what time she was babysitting tomorrow. Instead of telling me what time, she said "I'm not sure, I won't be out too late though." This indirect answer led me to believe she wanted to hang out again.
The next day I send her a text around 3pm asking her if she wants to come over if she's not babysitting late. I tell her that I'm probably getting pizza from this very good place that she told me she also loves.
Here is where I screw up I think. It's 7pm and she never responded to my text. I'm thinking about going out with my boys so I call her. She says she's still babysitting but "maybe" will come over later. I say "ok well I just wanted to know because I might be going out." She tells me to go out.
45 minutes later my plans changed and it looked as if I wouldn't be going out. I assumed she had now changed her "maybe" to a "no" seeing as how she figured I was going out. I texted her again saying "I'm not going out anymore, so don't feel like you'd be bothering me if you want to come over, just gimme a call."
She ended up babysitting way later than expected, and my plans changed yet again and I ended up going out, so nothing happened.
Was I being too needy/clingy with my text, phone call, and 2nd text? I think she's really into me and I'd definitely like to get to know her better. With the f-close the previous night I was more comfortable contacting her more often. With a random girl I wouldn't do that.
Anyways, I know shes working late tonight and probably has plans for tomorrow. I'm not going to contact her these two days and probably not on the weekend either as I'll be hanging out with friends I haven't seen in awhile (and so will she). I'm thinking about freezing her out until after Christmas, is this a good idea? Also another thing that makes this complicated is that as I said I'd like to take our relationship to the next level before going back to school because of the 1 or 2 guys trying to get with her that live in her dorm. My dorm is kinda far away from hers so i can never disarm them. We go back to school the first week of january.
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