Had this type of topic in relationships but it got locked after my lay report, but I still need some advice on the matter and as it's not relationship I'l post in here.
this is also not the place for questions, this is the place for discussion

Basically, I split up with my ex as she cheated on me on a drunken night out. Since she made no effort to get me back.

Anyway, she has strong feelings for me still and wants me, I see her as no worth now, and laying in bed with her the other day felt nothing. She has gone from a priority to an option.
she does not have strong feelings for you, as you can tell by the paragraph you wrote above this one, willing to have sex with you can be as simple as you are available and attractive enough for her, If you saw her as no worth you would not be writing this post and you would have dumped her and never spoke to her again, but obviously this girl is important to you

So last week got with a few girls, and told her yesterday about it, then I wanted a shag still and she wasnt having any of it, i tried turning her on etc.. but she said she should go. Then I hit the emotion switch and said:

"it sucks that i want you, but we both know we can't be together"

she got horny as fuck and we ended up fucking, then i got up after i came and got a drink while she got dressed.

Anyway...

Now, I want to have her as a fuck buddy, but she won't have this so I need to play it well while getting with other girls.


Any advice?

stop clinging to this, it is over, she dis-respected you, and thinks very lowly of you obviously, just move on, all that will come of this for you, is more emotional attachment, more resentment, and more bad feelings for you

I'm thinking do what i gotta do, then when im bored (as she lives upstairs) text her. So maybe, ignore her for a few days then text her to see her, fuck her, tell her i do miss her etc... I do miss how we were, but the feelings have gone since she cheated. Also, maybe one day meet her and have no intention of fucking her.

I just want it there, so when i want it, i can have it.

eventually she will stop sleeping with you all together because she does not have feelings/respect for you, have some respect for yourself and move on, you can get more girls easily if you just put in the effort and stop clinging to this one

yeah true guys. Ended up getting with some girl who lives above her in our flat last night, so going to see how that goes now. It was nice because shes a really nice girl. However, strange to say.... my ex was so drunk the night she cheated on me and lost her keys and camera. And she said it just happened.

I got smashed last night, and this girl who I got with... it just happened, I didn't even know what I was doing at the time or how infact it happened. Stange.