ok so obviously the more we think about somebody the fonder we grow. i know personally when a girl who i even slightly think about goes on a holiday or something like that where i cant contact her or anything like that i start to think about her more and more.
i think stupid things like "she is having so much fun that she isnt even thinking about me", "she is off meeting foriegn guys with sexy accents".


i am going to thailand in 7 days, i will be gone for 2 weeks. i want to use this to my advantage with a girl who i have recently started talking to again. i wanna know how i can make her think about me while im away?
a lock in prop would be perfect but i feel that is a bit too much in this situation...

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

Well, that depends on what relation you have with her. Is she even a bit into you, the distance will show her how much she cares. If she doesnt care, it just hurts it.

The lockin prop is a good idea. Or you could use an anchor. Get her a 100 pack of chewing gum or something. Make sure you ahve a great night and chew a lot of gum with that flavor. Now people remember better if they get the stimulus together with a strong emotion so make sure she gets one when you give her the gum.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

well the relationship is that we went on a couple of dates but then i started seeing someone else. im told she was a little hurt and offended by this so when things didnt work out between me and the other girl and i tried to talk to this one she said she would rather be friends.
however i feel that is her putting a wall up as i was a jerk previously. she is still pretty flirty and i know for a fact that she is desperate but too shy to do anything about it (she hasnt even kisssed a guy in over a year).

as for the anchor that is a good idea haha im going to try and catch up with her before i go. maybe even tomorow (valentines day).

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms