Sup guys

It has happened way to many times now, and I cant understand what I am doing wrong here.

I'm not home alone quite often, so when I do get the chance I'm home alone, I invite over a girl which we then get it on, we get into my bed but almost never get to f-close the deal.

Usually, I cant invite a girl over for the second time, because it takes way to long for me to be home alone again and still keep in contact with the same girl.

Usually I whisper what I'd do to her, caress, kiss. Later when were in my bed I take of my shirt and go on, which then I let her give me a massage then I give the girl a massage, but I never get further then just taking off the shirts.

this has happened way to many times and I just cant understand what I'm doing wrong.

HALP please.

The first times couple of times I have learnt that it was my insecurity what held me back from getting further then the usual. So I got over it, but when the last couple of times I noticed that the girls just stops me from pulling off mine or her pants.

It also sometimes just occurs that the girl is insecure over her own body and totally doesnt want to get out of her shirt either, untill I make us get under the sheets ( which makes her own body less visible and kind of kills the insecurity ). But that same thing wont work with the pants.

Turn her on more... Yeah some girls are funny about taking of their bra's keep them on if you have to When she's really turned on she'll just let you take it off her, 1 handed to show you got skills

You need more foreplay. She's most likely not turned on to that point.

I still find your situation weird... If she's in your bed she obviously has the same intentions... I guess but be more smooth about removing her clothes, and make sure she really wants it.

When doing the massage: Start at the feet, work each feet with both hands for a couple of minutes before moving on to her calves. This is when you tell her to take off her pants. Dont ask her, tell her!

Give her a comment on her nice legs and continue the massage up her legs till you get to the booty. This is where you slowly escalate the massage towards her pussy, if she is not showing resistance you got three choices from here:

1. Pull aside her panties fuck her
2. Pull aside her panties and start licking her
3. Finger her before fucking her

Cheers, I hope this helps

I am almost sure they want it too, but I have the idea its a combination of anti-slut defence ( because its usually the first time they come over ) and insecurity. Also I dont have a 'smooth' way to take off her pants. Like Velocity, I usually tell them, dont ask them to take their clothes off, but still resist.

I might try Velocity's advice about massaging from the feet to the calves. Thanks all.

If there is still someone who got advice, please post them.

massage awesome, that is the best way to get her laid, you have to massage her normal and good, for about 5 minutes till she relaxes, then upper tights and butt very sensual in a way that the massage movement inderctly are moving the pussy, but any ways, do not go there build the tension and anticipation, then, when she is super turn on usually at the 15 minutes make out with her tease her and finger her, then go down on her, or just slide it in... get the book sex god by rose... watch lesbian massage porn and hidden/spy camara japanese massage porn .....

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massaging is always the way to go in my case since im a pro. i tell her im good and ask if she wants one. i start on the back, get her input and ask if she likes it. i like when im rubbing her deltoids i tease torwards her tits just to give her a hint at what my intent is. if she doesnt tense up at all i'll feel free to massage her tits which tends to work nice but i dont get too caught up in any one erogenous zone of her body. i can do the same with her ass. if im massaging her ass its easy to transfer to thighs and tease her pussy.

if you're not good at massage, its pretty easy to just go from kissing her lips to kissing her neck, this will turn her on and i doubt she'll have any resistance when you go from neck to chest to tits at which point you can take the shirt off

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I agree with what skills said about warming her up. And what HairyPua said about the tits. I am also a professional. But even before massage became my profession I used it alot to escalate sexually. Try this. First off make sure you have on loose pants or shorts. When you are setting up to massage her, sit just below her ass, so that your dick is basically resting on her ass, specifically the crack of her ass. as you massage, always massage upwards, after she is warmed up and enjoying the massage, start doing long strides upwards, as you get near the top, start to rub your dick lightly on her ass keep doing the motion upwards while still continuing to rub with your dick, you will start to get hard and as you do, she will certainly notice, if she doesn't tense up and starts to move her hips to acknowledge and participate, immediately start to kiss the back of her neck as you are grinding her. This should set the wheels in motion.

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Got some good advice here off other people. I do something a bit different but it works for me.

When I invite a girl to mine (I house share so she is always coming to my room) she has to sit on my bed. I stay at the other end of the bed though- I don't want her thinking "oh he is already thinking about sex. What I want her to think AFTER we have fucked is "it just happened" chat to her, have a drink etc and then at some point il ask her to get up to get me something (like a drink)
When she stands up then il get up and go over and kiss her. Then when she returns to the bed she will naturally want to close the distance, from there have a lil cuddle and a kiss- then back off for a few mins.. Then start again but push a lil further Take your time, don't jump on her (bit like push pull) and hopefully with the small increments it will come more naturally.

Do you kiss them and stuff? What exactly do you do? I feel like you may be a guy that gets into bed with a girl then talks a lot.

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