So a couple months ago, i exchanged numbers with a girl i added on facebook.

We'd text back to back, almost instant replies.

When she never replied quickly, i'd start to get angry, i even sent her a text telling her whats the problem with her not replying (NEVER AGAIN)

I'd also check my phone constantly. Depending on whether she replied or not, it altered my mood for most of the day. Dont worry, im not going down that one way road again.

So my question really is,
What exacly are the fundamental rules of text game?
How often do you reply..when do you reply...

I dont have problems knowing what to say. its when to say it.

cheers lads

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right here u didnt say the right thing. i started a thread just yesterday on mantaining power. when to give it to her and when not to. if she is testing you by not texting you, the way to pass this test or skip it is to do the same to her. you have a busy enough life and plenty other girls coming and going that it doesnt matter that she didnt text back. she's testing your value and you texting back when she doesnt reply is lowering it. anyways champ, it seems you dont know what to say.

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Three words:

"Text and forget."

I don't subscribe to the belief that texting back right away makes you seem desperate. However if you text MORE than two times for every one of her messages, and ESPECIALLY if you get angry and ask why she doesn't respond, then you come off needy.

I always text back right away because I can't be bothered with having to stagger my text messages to make myself appear nonchalant. It literally takes me 5 seconds to type a response and send it, and let's face it unless she's out wake-boarding 24/7 or in meetings all day long where she can't sneak her phone under the table, she's probably trying to appear nonchalant so that the guy doesn't think she's desperate. Women like to play games. Your first, best, and only rule is: Don't play along.

Pick up the phone and call her.

That being said if you choose to text, do so when you have time. If that's right now, then text right now. If that's in 4 hours, do it in 4 hours. But each time you do, toss the phone away and don't think about it. Go back to whatever you're doing. Make this a constant habit and you will never wonder if that was your phone on vibrate or just your thigh twitching - unless your thigh twitches a lot which is another annoying problem. If you need an answer asap, pick up the phone and actually call her. If it goes to voicemail, leave a message and then write her off as a flake. Let her surprise you if/when she calls back. What do you care, you're gaming other girls - right?

Q.

The rules for texting a girl are the same rules of being a man. Do what you want, when you want and don't give a shit about it.

If a girl can get you angry through text messages alone, I personally recommend you stay away from texting and work on some more important things in your life.
Why I mean by that is this...
If you have time to sit there and continuously look at your phone and develop negative emotional responses, than, what your doing at that specific time is not a good thing.
I know this because a person would not be worried about someone not replying if they are too busy enjoying themselves.
Now you might you say well, what kind of person is always enjoying themselves?
Good question. The answer is simple, its the same type of person that doesn't need other variables(people,drugs, games) to enjoy themselves, that person who is independent of those, basically a man.

hope that helps,

Samex

You guys took the words outa my mouth. You shouldn't appear to eager to text her, here's a thing I like doing. A majority of the time ill get texts blah blah respond a few times, than ill usually leave her on a cliffhanger where she says something, and I don't text back. Usually happens when I'm skating working out, whatever. Let her know your busy, that you don't sit around waiting for her. Your trying to give her that impression. Plus never text twice,girls don't even pull that.

Also, read the text, don't always say the first thing that comes to mind. The beauty of texting is you can plan the perfect thing to say, which is witty and gives room to keep convo flowing and smooth. Plus she will think your busy, preoccupied, disinterested....which leads to a beautiful thing called her trying to qualify.

-Phoenix-