I haven't really put effort into learning "game" i guess until the start of this year


i've been about about 35 nights, although that might be an overshoot, in the past 6 months

i'm not amazing at it by any means, but i've gotten pretty damn good at it

it's soo simple and stupid it's ridiculous

i'm not even that cool of a person to be honest...i just act normal and they think i'm cool because when i act normal my subcommuniations are in tact and they think i'm some cool dude even though the only "sport" i played in high school was like chess.

but again i guess i've always been a pretty good talker...i've always got in trouble in middle school and stuff for talking way too fucking much

I still do get in my head here and there and lose sight of what to say...but what can i do about that...Happened about 4 times last night

Do any of these posts serve a purpose other than to say "oh, look at me, i'm special?"

nope...i just feel like a lot of people are overthinking the process though

i mean if i can be somewhat good considering how unattractive i am...i can't understand why others cannot be as well

like literally i think people overcomplicate shit and just think way too much about this.

yeah!!!! +1
almost MPUA! 35 wow!! nice.

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Hey Rasta,

That's pretty cool that you've gotten the hang of this stuff. It definitely is one of those things that sound so complicated at first, and then it all clicks.
Being a good talker is definitely a bonus. It can play a big role in developing
confidence while 'gaming.'

I'm interested in knowing what areas you've noticed improvement in?

Keep up the good work,

Sam

A lot of guys can do really really well right away because they have conditional confidence attached to the fact that they assume PUA is almost magical. They go out with a bag of tricks and charm a couple of 19 yo girls, and they think its magic and they are some kind of prodigy. But be careful because if you believe this, the first time it fails you in a real way, you may abandon it all together because you lose your confidence and your confidence is what made it work the whole time. There used to be tons of posts from guys that hit speed bumps in their PUA and turn against it and start writing posts against it. I guess I'm just saying, be careful, PUA is great, but it isn't foolproof, no matter how good you are.

Kalel is right! No matter how good you get, you win some and you lose some.

However, it is good to see that you are improving your game. You will see that it improves a lot of other aspects of your life as well.

Be careful though, many PUAs think that they have found the one truth or the holy grail of pickup and then believe in that and that alone. The effect being that they think that the game is very simple because they have developed ways to deal with a lot of girls and with a lot of their own issues. That is until they come across someone or something that challenges their skills in a new way. Then it is all back to square one.

Looking back at your training, it almost always look simple and easy and you wonder why you overcomplicated things. But it wasnt all that simple because at the time, you had other problems needing to be solved. Everything is easy when you know it.

Now, nobody would think 1+5*100 is a difficult thing to calculate but in first grade we would have been struggling.

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