As I've stated, I'm a Master Practitioner of NLP, a Certified Conversational Hypnotherapist, Certified hypnotherapist, and a Public Speaker. Recently, the owner of a fetish club reached out to me, at recommendation from his girlfriend, who was once my girlfriend, and asked if I knew how to teach erotic hypnosis and if I'd be interested in teaching it to a group at his club. I said yes and yes.

The technique I'm going to share with you is the hallmark technique, it isn't hypnosis, as much as it is Intimate Rapport. I've been told by couples that they've never been more open to each other and more sexual to each other... one couple said they explained it to their friends who were on the brink of divorce, and they are now renewing their wedding vowels.

Use it sparingly, and I would recommend using it only for LTR's, or for long term casual relationships. This is not a technique to use on women you don't want to see again, because, both you and her will feel a far greater connection to each other, that, for a one night stand, would not be what you want.

The Mirror Game.
First, find some place comfortable to sit where your facing each other, it can be on a bed, in chairs, on the floor. You want a distance about the length of the shoulder to the elbow.
Second, look direct eye contact, look each other directly in the eyes, focus directly in each others eyes.
Third, slowly move one arm up, and direct your partner to follow along, mirroring you. Continue eye contact.
Forth, Move the other arm up and have her follow along, then make a motion, again, keep eye contact as much as possible.
Fifth, play around with the movement of hands, smiling, not smiling, looking right, looking left, until, you are in synch.
Sixth, slowly extend your hands so that your both touching each others palms, this is where you both lose control of who is making the decisions, so that you now both move mutually.
Seventh, Tell each other something personal, build it up as you keep moving your hands, moving your bodies back and forth, your palms ever so connected. One person takes a turn, then the other person, eventually, you'll get to sexual fantasies.
Eighth, part from each other, put your hands back on your lap, and see where your at.

Like I said, this is meant for couples, it's meant for them to feel as if your fantasy is their fantasy, and vice-versa, and, as of the 12 couples, and myself and my sex buddies (for lack of a better term), everyone has seen success in getting over hurdles, anxieties, or the sheer inability to ask for what they want in bed, or to go along with what the partner wants in bed. It's also completely intimate, I haven't done it once yet where the woman wasn't soaking wet. And in doing it in the club, orchestrating it with the couples, the same reaction from both couples.

Just a fun little technique, maybe you'll find a place for it, maybe not.

loooool Im slightly considering trying this lol...maybe.

A girl is coming to stay with me in 4 weeks. I havent seen her for a few months, but we already had the best sex of my life together. So im really interested on just taking the sex to new heights altogether next time she sees me.

Got some questions...
ok how long do you take to do this? and also do you say something, then say, what about you? Or does she have to take some initiative and say her own things... coz im worried Ill try push too deep into fantasies and she will be stuck on saying "I like tan guys with abs" -.- how do you lead her deeper!

so she gets wet during the process? or was she wet first lol ...

Do you recommend doing it like, before sex or during half time... (after first fuck, before second fuck)

How long would it go for? and can you play a little bit of music during?

thanks man

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That doesn't undermine anything, tantric was heavily influenential, but Tantric focuses mostly on soul gazing, the eye contact... I dated this woman that ran a Tantric Sex workshop--some of the best sex in my life (we still hang)--and yes, it certainly influenced this. The mirroring technique was something I used in therapy sessions with people with a Peg Board, so sitting across from them, I asked them to follow along and put pegs in their board as I put pegs into mine, within a few minutes, we were moving in synch and they became increasingly easy to talk to, and program their minds to solve their problems.

Then, one day, I was dating a girl who didn't want to try anything Kinky, so I wanted to see if we could tap into the kinkier sides of her personality using the same trick, and it worked.

On the questions asked. Start by saying small things, depending on your closeness to the person, you might want to start with compliments of her body, she'll pick up the lead, compliment something of you, move that to stuff you want to do with her (start small, move big). This is compliance principle, several psychologist have stated that it works to rewrite her sexual reality, get her to agree to small things sexually (by agree, she just doesn't need to reject, she just needs to continue the game), and by the time you get to more and more erotic things, she too will be moving into bigger wants and desires. People take leads, if you start talking about ideal women, she'll talk about ideal men. If you focus on her, she'll focus on you.

As long as you accept her desires, she'll accept yours, at least unconsciously.

The whole process takes anywhere from 10 to 30 minutes, depending on how long it takes you to synch with each other. Like I said, it's a game for couples, it's fore play, so you want to do it before sex, and music is wonderful if it's something relaxing that can block out the world around you.