UK v US/Jealousy plots/RED Response - General chit-chat.



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 11, 2012 9:55 pm 
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Ok people so just a little random chit chat.

UK -V- US. So I just wondered what people's interpretations are of how the game differs across the Atlantic. I've never been to America but it appears the social acceptance is higher in the USA, norms are different and people are more friendly. Some of the stuff I see suggested or see in videos I just think that shit would never work in the UK. A prime example being Mystery's personality and his flying goggles. I feel that some of the women in the UK, London specifically, can be very hostile and wondered how you guys tailor your game. I find I'm maybe less outrageous to look at and kind of work my way up to big shock lines. I'm also more willing to just walk away from a set that isn't going so well, invest more in social proof and try and work the room a little more. I also think the guys in the UK are a lot more hostile, in some places guys wont think twice about swinging for you just for talking to their girls and at best the reception is frosty. I find myself just taking an extra minute to figure out if the guys are actually with the girls or if they have just met.

Jealousy plot lines - I see varying success with this. I had been talking to a girl the other night and was in to comfort, to be fair I probably hadn't sexualised it enough but we were close, talking about gfs/bfs and there was a lot of kino. I also got a dance and she was showing a lot of IOIs. To be honest I don't think my game is MEGA solid at the moment so i'm a big fan of working on a set for a while and as soon as it 'slows' i'll say 'hey there's my buddy, back in a sec' showing social proof, taking away etc etc. But after I did this I made my way to the dance floor and saw one of my wings talking to a girl so I jumped in there with him and occupied the obstacle. I wasn't very interested but by chance she lived quite close to my home, we got on ok and I got a number close. During this time I saw out of the corner of my eye what I thought was the girl I was just with. From this point onwards her friend was VERY frosty with my wing to the point of saying stuff like 'cmon i've heard it all before, what line have you got for me now?' after being quite good earlier. I didn't end up going to that set as they left soon after but it made me wonder how you would ensure this doesn't happen. Maybe the jealousy plotline was too overt (That shouldn't matter if we take the view 'hey im just having fun and meeting new people) and I also think maybe there wasn't enough attraction built.

RED Response - Finally how often do you guys get a real red response and what do you do if a girl just says 'F*** off' in response to a neg or qualification? I'd say just laugh it off and say something like oh you must be the feisty one!?

Just general chat guys, feel free to read/respond/ignore.

Anyone fancy sarging in Bath, give me a shout!

TT

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