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PostPosted: Fri Jan 20, 2012 9:53 am 
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Hey Everyone,

Names Impact, I've been in this community for the last 5-6 years! Used to be insanely good at meeting women almost everywhere! But now I feel mildly disconnected from the community.

For the last two years I've been fighting off a serious illness and then got bogged down with a really beautiful girl for over a year. I also finished my masters degree at uni recently and that almost destroyed me with work.

As time went on I decided that the girl I was dating wasn't the one for me. I felt like she was far too much into me and my eyes and my heart just weren't there anymore. It is true that the hot girl you see is often with a guy whose sick of fucking her and I guess that's my story. I think my biggest mistake was to fall into the flow of life and women. When your in a relationship and shes into you, you don't really do much.. half the time i didn't even say a word and shed talk for hours, her friends would love me and no matter where id go i was value. I stopped working for everything like I did when I had nothing and now approaching someone seems...

I went out with a few girls just instant dates not too long ago. Met them at a art gallery, had the energy and sexxy in the eyes, the smile and it was game on.. for some reason now.. maybe because I've been studying or what that life force seems to be draining away.. Not to sure how to keep the high momentum going? Any ideas?

I look at a girl and almost like I don't want it anymore even though I do? Can't figure this out and not sure whats going on! Kind of like a fighter whose lost the will to fight? I mean the girls like me, I go wherever talk and they are into me and flirty all that stuff but my body is pulling me away to go.. why?

I have clear vivid memories of me being awesome with women and going on many instant dates. I see the old pictures of me and notice a really big spark there that I feel is gone? I gotta get back into it all, any ideas where to start? Am I alone on this?

Let me know!

Good to be back, missed you all
- Impact

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 20, 2012 11:55 am 
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I look at a girl and almost like I don't want it anymore even though I do? Can't figure this out and not sure whats going on! Kind of like a fighter whose lost the will to fight? I mean the girls like me, I go wherever talk and they are into me and flirty all that stuff but my body is pulling me away to go.. why?

I have clear vivid memories of me being awesome with women and going on many instant dates. I see the old pictures of me and notice a really big spark there that I feel is gone? I gotta get back into it all, any ideas where to start? Am I alone on this?
felt this same way many many many times... even a lot lately when Im trying to get back into the swing of things and gaming...

So Im going on a long round the world holiday. Get out of the same rat-race routine. Meet people from other cultures, and to experience new, fun & exciting shit!! Girls from other countries get that spark going inside me... theyre a lot different to where Im from and what Im used to... So I want it more. Just one of the many things travelling has to offer.

Youre finished uni now so maybe its time for you to get out there too?

Ill let you know when I get back how it goes :P

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Hey Everyone,

Names Impact, I've been in this community for the last 5-6 years! Used to be insanely good at meeting women almost everywhere! But now I feel mildly disconnected from the community.

For the last two years I've been fighting off a serious illness and then got bogged down with a really beautiful girl for over a year. I also finished my masters degree at uni recently and that almost destroyed me with work.

As time went on I decided that the girl I was dating wasn't the one for me. I felt like she was far too much into me and my eyes and my heart just weren't there anymore. It is true that the hot girl you see is often with a guy whose sick of fucking her and I guess that's my story. I think my biggest mistake was to fall into the flow of life and women. When your in a relationship and shes into you, you don't really do much.. half the time i didn't even say a word and shed talk for hours, her friends would love me and no matter where id go i was value. I stopped working for everything like I did when I had nothing and now approaching someone seems...

I went out with a few girls just instant dates not too long ago. Met them at a art gallery, had the energy and sexxy in the eyes, the smile and it was game on.. for some reason now.. maybe because I've been studying or what that life force seems to be draining away.. Not to sure how to keep the high momentum going? Any ideas?

I look at a girl and almost like I don't want it anymore even though I do? Can't figure this out and not sure whats going on! Kind of like a fighter whose lost the will to fight? I mean the girls like me, I go wherever talk and they are into me and flirty all that stuff but my body is pulling me away to go.. why?

I have clear vivid memories of me being awesome with women and going on many instant dates. I see the old pictures of me and notice a really big spark there that I feel is gone? I gotta get back into it all, any ideas where to start? Am I alone on this?

Let me know!

Good to be back, missed you all
- Impact

It takes a while to get going specially after a ltr, that is while i am in ltr, i still keep practicing the skills, anyways, you need to focus on escalation... don't know if you are old school the new game is purely escalation....Analogy, you work your ass of and you got your masters degree in whatever, you move to another country and your degree does not count in that country or state and you need to do everything all over again from 0.



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