Over the past week it seems I must have seen some variation of the following question what seems like 100 times...

"How do i game in a loud venue?"

The following is a quick and simple guide to loud venues.

First, you have to realize that verbal game is a non-issue. It truly doesn't matter a whole lot what you say so stop worrying about it. Whats more important is Sexualized Physical Game. SPG (Sexualized Physical Game) is THE shortcut to getting laid. Verbal game takes a back seat to SPG!

Though I should mention, its obviously helpful to talk. I don't care how loud it is, if the women is having trouble hearing you, and vise versa, you are either not close enough to her, and/or your vocal projection is lacking in strength. Work on your vocal projection, speak LOUD and with authority and work on getting closer. Skin on Skin close. Most guys can get MUCH closer in a MUCH shorter time frame than they think. Get LOUD and get CLOSE. Most importantly, get PHYSICAL.

SPG will allow you to cut through the verbal bullshit and it will turn the woman on, much faster than verbal game ever will.

Resources to read to better understand:

Carians Shock and Awe.

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RSD "The Physical Game"

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Lets break down a vid I posted in another thread:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZVmN7VViYI[/youtube]

Take notice of how close he is. No doubt that she can hear him. Also take notice of how being close allows him to be very physical. This is textbook.

Although a bit harder to see in the video, also take note of the vibe hes putting off. Its very fun and sexual. Women eat that shit up!

At the 0:15 mark take notice of how he places his hands on her hips and leads her body to where he wants its. Dominate Leading in action right there.
He then goes for the kiss, and gets it. He doesn't pussy foot around with the kiss, he wants it and he goes for it. This is very attractive to a woman.

No lame "do you want to kiss me" or anything like that. Just full assuming the chick wants it and going for it.

Notice the ass grabbing during the makeout...further SPG taking place.

At the 0:56 mark he again picks her up and leads her physically where he wants her to go to. Again, this is dominate SPG. Not really a whole lot of talking taking place.

This vid is a great example of what to do in loud clubs, hell...even in not so loud clubs. Next time your out just remember, stop speaking and start getting physical.

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awesome post man. love it. will definitely give it a try. thanks dude

Nice, we're going at disco tonight, defenitly goona try that out

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huh?

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Very interesting, puts a different swing on the whole interaction, and a certain part of the 'game' in general for me.

Would physical escalation like this be advised for general areas too though, I know in public this wouldn't be very realistic i.e malls, street. More of a general clubs, pubs and standing, maybe crowded areas?

Guru

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This is good advise actually, Physical game is technically another type of game completley.

I was out a couple of weeks ago in a club and i was totally smashed after about 10 Jagerbombs!

Anyway i was dancing with this chick and all my game was physical, i didn't even get her name but i spent a good portion of the night with her.

If i had tried to game her verbally being that drunk i probably would have sounded greek!

Good post though guys!

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question here

wtf do you talk about with a girl when you're that close to her dancing..

i dont think it'd be appropriate to say 'oh so how was your day'..

what are good things to say or talk about when you're THAT close to a girl like he was in this video that will make you seduce her?

Be sexual with her.

Perhaps this will help: http://puarticles.blogspot.com/2008/01/test.html

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i've read that before..
but not sure if shock and awe is exactly my thing ..

I should be 'blaming her for being too hot'?

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I know that if i'm dancing with my target like face to face or really close together, it should be pretty sexual dancing, but what if I want to bring her closer like the guy did in the video above.. I mean what do you think he's telling her? I'm good at communicating normally face to face but on a dancefloor when there's a lot of sexual tension between both of you- what do you tell the girl when you bring her in and start flirting with her, and your inches from here face .. you know what I mean? because small talk in that situation seems a little weird but certain things said could probably get her more into you..
but not sure what to say, that's one of my weaknesses ..

You grab her and bring her closer. That simple.
It doesnt really matter but my best guess some some shock and awe type stuff.
Again, shock and awe type stuff; being overtly sexual.

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Great video. Really really great one. I was recently at a spot so loud I couldn't even get her name. I definitely went to her ear to talk, but it was still too much. In that situation, where we can't say ANYTHING, is the proper response to say "fuck it" and dance?

Great read.

Definitely useful and will give it a try the next time I'm at a loud venue. I normally hate loud venues because I'm a lot better with words than I am with physical touching. I like to kino escalate but I don't want to grab, push, and shove, so it's a lot easier for me to work up towards seduction rather than doing the physical stuff so quickly. Thanks for the advice.

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