I don't really know what topic would this fit, so I just put it here.

So...what I'm going to talk about is the two types of cute. There is the "cute" term used for the "nice guys" you have to avoid that. But have you ever heard girls say: "OMG that guy is so CUTE blah blah blah"? And that's what I call the "sexy cute"

We have a Biophysics teacher here at the university. He is THE ANTI-MAN. I'm telling you no shitting there's nothing masculine about him. But he has this god damn charm... hard to believe but even we guys can sense it. His dressing, bit squint eyes, grizzled hair and everything. He's also so natural when he's giving the lectures...Girls just go MAD about him. Half of the fucking class just goes wet when he just appears, and you can smell all the wet panties in the lecture room when he starts speaking.

It's really hard to explain... But my point is that if you ever were like "This alpha thing about not giving a crap for everything is just so not me" I'm telling you to give this a try. It's not easy if you're not naturally born this way, but for few it can be a life-saver. Now I'm not telling you to disregard everything you've learned about alpha and start acting needy and rely on just being the cute guy. That would be stupid. Just watch for what type of guys girls tend to go crazy when you don't find anything that, according to your studies, should be attractive about him. And try to catch it. Even for you "super-confident and alpha" guys, I think you can learn something useful from this.

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Thanks Fisher, I like what you wrote here. Ever since I was little, the girls always called me cute. How they would love to cuddle with me. I still look this way, but I realized something recently. i am the bad kind of cute. The nice guy. This was back in September when I first got into PUA. Now I have changed my mentality and am working towards this new sexy cute. I have confidence and the girls like to put their hands on me. It sort of freaks me out actually, but i love it at the same time.

And for the first time I actually have a girlfriend.

Haha yeah I know it dude. It's really weird when they start acting that way at first. But you'll get so used to it and it will be so natural. I'm not much of an MM fan, but there's some things I raelly like about it. One of it is when a girl touches you, you can accuse her of hitting on you. Like say :"So...Are you already hitting on me? I know I'm handsome but I'm not that easy" It's playful and they'll laugh and at the same time you communicate to them that you're a guy that they must work for to get. Girl love to work for things, really the only thing they appreciate is something they put hard work into to get it.

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I agree with your view in as far as I understood it, but I think it lacks specificity. I think you should dedicate more words to what your teacher is like than "he has this goddamn charm and is not an asshole alpha type".

Also, I think from your description he probably is "alpha" by the not giving a shit about people's thoughts on him field. Normal people call that confidence and more psychological types call it self-actualisation, though.

Sure...He's confident. About that not giving a shit thing... It's a little complicated. I mean that "I don't give a shit about what others think about me" is an attitude towards a happy life. But most people tend to define alpha like "I don't give a shit about anyone besides me" They're almost the same, yet so far. Some people can have difficulties with this second attitude because they care about others, and they don't realise that the first type is just enough to be happy and get pussy.

You say I should give more details? How could I? It's in his body language, and voice tonality. I can't describe his every movement mate...that's why I suggested you should go out and watch out for people like this. It's not a golden exception...there are plenty of guys like him out there. If you occasionally go out, you know that. I'm sure about it.

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Yeah I think it depends on what you define alpha as being.

For me, I try not to get bogged down in loads of "must haves" and all that sort of stuff, it's just the more general attitude of confidence really. If you've got the confidence to be yourself and you're not afraid that others might not like you for being yourself, then that is alpha.

I think girls can often have crushes on tutors etc for this reason - a lot of them are good public speakers and come across as very confident. They're in their element, it's what they're paid to do, they know that they have done lectures like this before, so of course they're confident. They're talking about something they're passionate about (usually), and also they know more about that topic than pretty much everyone else in the room. That's quite easy to turn into a confident performance!

I bet a lot of the tutors though, if you got them outside of their academic lives would be just normal guys who the girls wouldn't think twice about. If they were in everyday situations, I dare say most of them haven't got any better social skills than the majority of other people!