Hey! Some of you might remember me. I'm the guy who pussied out and almost killed himself about two years ago or something.

So, I've been on and off of the community, I have a girlfriend so I don't really game anyone. "Game", eh.

Don't interpret what I am about to say as a criticism to the community. I've met some wonderful people, people who really cared for each other and women.

Now, on to the point.

Since I've stopped gaming, reading PUA stuff and etc (even before I was in a relationship) my success with girls and life in general has more than doubled. When I was into this stuff I overanalyzed anything, and even though I often read things like: "How not to overanalyse" it was usually just useless. Everything in PUA is an intelectual exercise, supposed to translate into practice and real life.

Does it work? Yup. A lot of it.
It's a skill, like any other skill.

I got into Muay Thai an year ago. The first and second months were horrible, I didn't understand anything, every technique was counter intuitive, turning the hips when I punch, pivoting when I kick... Etc. I was always looking for more ways to get it down. And that was not, in general, a bad thing. Technique is important.

But I was focusing only on getting it down. I learned how to do a perfect, textbook hook. When it came to fighting I just flailed around.

I'm straying away from the point... I've left the community, basically. Even if I become single again, and start gaming, I probably won't post field reports. Probably won't even ask for advice. Not to spite you, but when I got into the Game I saw it as the solution to all my problems, I started seeing every interection as a pick up. Girls didn't joke with me, they just shit tested. Friends were cockblocking me, etc.

I'll be harsh now: There should be only type of person frequently active in the community, the kind of guy who wants to fuck a lot of chicks. I see nothing wrong with it, as long as they don't hurt anybody it's a perfectly okay goal.

Those who just want to be satisfied, good with women and people in general, do what I do: Relax. Work on yourself. Be good to people and have fun with them. It's a cliche, but if you like yourself others will. Push yourself harder, make yourself stronger, and like doing it. Bodylanguage, speaking in statements, openers, etc, nothing of it matters after the first few month of learning.

Try it all, if you want. I know I did.
Then forget all about it. The good will stick with you.

And those of you who want to fuck a lot of girls: Do it only if you love women, if you are having sex because you truly love sex, not getting it.

Would you prefer to fuck 30 women and having everyone know about it, your friends admiring you, etc? Or would you prefer having sex with 100 and nobody giving a shit, or even acknowledging it.

If you choose the first one, you might want to start rethinking your life.

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Oh, sorry for the double post, just want to add:

Being "Alpha" is a shitty goal in itself. Don't ask if you should try to adopt a bad boy look, don't ask if it is alpha to lick your girlfriend's asshole, and for fuck's sake, don't argue on the internet like two eleven year old boys over a toy. Nobody cares, you're just wasting precious minutes of your lives and happiness, where you could be doing something worthwhile.

Like not licking your girlfriend's asshole.

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