just wondering, has anyone had oneitis with a new girl AFTER joining the community? it seems like im getting it, dont get me wrong.. i'm not a total AFC anymore, but feels like i'm going back into it after 2 years.. i can't run any of my game regularly, and it messes my game with other girls and i turn them down cause of my oneitis.. oneitis seems worse cause you KNOW you have it.. hahaha oppinions/tips greatly appreciated...

I know eh it sucks. I was dating this girl before I joined the game and I told her I just wanted to be friends and then I joined the community and now im falling for her again. The only problem, is that she doesnt believe in kissing before marriage LMAO

Yes, j.kelly, you can definitely get one-itis after getting involved in the community. The best advice is what you see and hear over and over and over again. Move on to other girls. Period.

(lol) Im currently in a One-itis quasi relationship with a female I've just met about 2 months ago. The ironic thing is that I never envisioned getting One-itis after being a self-proclaimed pick-up artist!!! It was to the point that I called this chicc repeatedly last night after an argument while she nonchalantly didnt care to cal me bacc!!! I've actually felt really jealous in an over reacting manner towards petty shit!! I must say that One-its is one crucial fragment of my game that I need to put in checc.

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Yes it's very possible. It depends on what you came here looking for.
If you just came here to fuck a bunch of chicks then probably not.
However, if you came here with intentions of improving yourself after a bad relationship or to learn what you need to pick up someone for a LTR then it's extremely possible as long as you meet the right person. Use caution however not to let yourself revert to AFC while you do this, it WILL end up biting you in the ass.

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Happens to everyone, love and fixation is a natural part of life. Nothing particularly wrong with unless you let it control you.

A little bit at the beginning, yeah.

Now it's no more - I simply have too many girls in my life to get particularly hung up on one of them.

Carpe Diem.

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definetly man, I hate when it happens and you know that your comin off as a needy afc type guy even if you know what you must do for the long term benefit, this recently happened to me and I will admit I believe it will happen more times in the future than I can count, my story that Im refering to is pretty much like this- met the girl 3 years ago when I was outta shape, complete afc, I was in 6th or 7th grade, recently met her again in drivers ed and she still had my number after all them years (yeah pretty surprising) she was showing many IOI's and I just ran my game as if she was any other woman, I then found out she lives 6 houses down from me haha pretty crazy, thats when that one-itis kicked in, I seen her in drivers ed flirting with another guy and Ill admit I was pretty bummed out, I think the reason being was because I was turned down by her 3 years ago and I felt as I needed to prove to myself that I could get with her. Simply put, we had a fallout so I decided I need to get fresh back up on my game and I deleted her number and everything so even if that afc state of mind came back I could not contact her easily. It is actually working out well for me and I am back into the game it has been 3 days now and I feel that the one-itis is completely gone and I couldnt give 2 cents about her. Just keep up with the game man do what youve gotta do and as they say the only cure to one-itis is 10 woman.

When you feel youve got one-itis just occupy yourself, I have been training for an upcoming mma fight in June and have put all of my thought into that, it works.

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