Alright, here's the low down.

I was out at the bar last night. Nothing special, except for my wingman ditched me. Luckily enough, that had no effect on my game. I had sarged out a HB9, and was dancing with her. I managed to isolate her from her group, but knew she wasn't going to leave with out them.

End of the night, she gave me her number (and I didn't even ask for it), and kiss-closed it.

Big question I have is, how long should I wait before calling her? I need to keep her guessing and wait, and then I'll hold the power.

Any input is would be awesome...

Thanks

Two to three days, unless its a weekend. Take it you havent seen the film 'swingers'?

you should wait atleast 4 days you dont want the girl to think your desparate.

Call her on monday or maybe tuesday (at the evening) when she is at home. Four days is way too much dude. If you'd called her like 30mins after you got her number, YES you would be desperate and needy.

Dude...look at the date...this was posted nearly 2 yrs ago!

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My fault your right its better to range than to single out a certain day between 2-4 days.

Blame romatic100!

sorry man Im just trying to help out other guys

4 days,

Nothing less


makes you seem insecure

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Actually, from my experience it doesn't matter. I dunno how many girls you guys have been with, but you really shouldn't generalise and give the new guys ideas like this without some sort of foundation. Yes, it's a good thing to look busy so that you're not always available and it helps to establish that you're the prize, but you don't have to wait if you don't want to. Think about it, girls don't automatically assume you have nothing better to do than call her. Unless she is a total bitch, this is the last thing she'll be thinking... and who the fuck wants to bring a bitch into their home? Call her when you want to and take control. They like a good thing to come along, just like us, and they will only assume the worst of you if you give them ample reason, such as displaying needy behaviour when you approach her. I've actually found that the longer you wait, the harder it is to arrange a day 2 and the more likely she is to flake. And that was with solid game aswell! This is because you're not fresh in her mind anymore and unless you made a REALLY good impression on her, you're gonna have your work cut out for you.

I've met girls during the day and called them the same night. Did they think I was desperate? Did they fuck. It was confidence, not desperation. And it pays off. If you make a really shitty approach and she isn't into you then yeah, calling the same night or the day after would be a bad move. That's the key... if she's into you then it doesn't matter when you call her. Common sense, no? I do what I want, when I feel like it, because I'm confident that she likes me and I don't have to wait around or do anything special to impress her. If you can say that about yourself and you are truly your own person then you shouldn't feel the need to follow those guidelines. Who says you shouldn't call a girl for 4 days anyway? And why is it 4 days and not 3? They're not machines, so be realistic and use your common sense with this stuff. I've actually had better success with girls I've met and called later that evening. Not just girls I've had instant dates with either... I've stopped girls randomly in the street, gotten their numbers then called them later that evening, only for them to over to see me. Think about that for a second... if she wants to hook up and you know she does, why the fuck would you waste 4 days sitting on your ass or gaming other girls when you could be getting what you want that very same night, or the day after?

if the interaction btw u and the hb was short then you should call her the next day because there is a big chance she might have forgetten about you. However if the interaction was very long then you can wait as much as a week because she'll remember you from the long interaction you had.