Have you ever been out on a nice sunny day with an attractive girl. You chit chat, you're game is decent, but for whatever fucking reason you can't kino. It just feels way too awkward. You might be able to accidently brush her while gesturing (Which is a great start) but you can't move to that fun flirty kino.
Ok, what I'm about to share with you is something I noticed myself doing when getting into the fun flirty kino. And the secret is. . .
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Leaning! Simple as that! You can lean pretty much anyway. I tend to lean back. I wouldn't recommend leaning straight forward, because your face will be in her face or breasts. Lean to the side, back, whatever... I just wouldn't recommend the front. (But if it works for you, go for it)
For example...
So if a HB and I are talking, and I notice a moment where I can tease her, I would lean and slightly hit her with my open palm, while calling her a dummy or something. Let me break it down.
Her: I spilled water on my laptop and now it won't turn on!
Me: *Leans with a curious face* (Forcing IOI)
Her: What? *With a curious smile* (IOI Forced)
Me: Dummy! *Taps her on the forehead with an open palm*
As far as why it works. I think because when you do the leaning with the right facial expression, it forces an IOI. Then the kino just completes the technique.
Side Note: When you're leaning, don't have the dead pan expression on your face. I notice that I have a "curious" face look while leaning, then I kino, and it results into flirting.
Side Note 2: Once you have succeeded a few times, don't just continuously tap her on the forehead. You can still use the leans to do the kino, but now make more kino. Escalation is key.