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| SmoothOp | PostPosted: Fri Nov 04, 2011 6:15 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Mon Aug 29, 2011 8:07 pm Posts: 516 Location: Ontario, Canada | | Ok guys just a question about something I am having trouble with.
Gaming girl's who are foreign and don't fully understand what the hell I'm saying.
For instance I met a beautiful asian girl, introduced my self and then got into conversation. She spoke english well enough but didn't understand my C&F remarks or my jokes. She was laughing all over the place but I could tell she had no idea what I was really saying. I had to explain jokes to her and my banter was useless. I almost ejected due to frustration. Anyways, I basically stopped doing verbal gaming and starting doing small talk (where you from, work, school ect..) and focused on physical game, think 60 years just not quick. So after I did this I began developing more interest from her.
So what do you do when language becomes a problem? I was beginning to feel like it was just friendly conversation until I started doing the good old "bedroom eyes" and some touching. Threw me off big time. Now I'm talking to her on the phone and it's even worse. I did make plans though, haven't been with asian girl before:)
I'm sure people have had this problem. Any tips?
I feel like I have to drop verbal game basically and talk to this chick like she is 4 years old. Also she seems shy, I gave her some compliments on her looks to which she responded really well too. It's just wierd, I'm running anti-game out my mouth, it's working, but I have never had this issue.
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| Ezo | PostPosted: Fri Nov 04, 2011 7:01 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Sun Nov 11, 2007 2:04 pm Posts: 4238 | | As I constantly game girls from a different culture than me I know what you mean.
Smile a lot to emphasize when you are joking or saying something nice. EMOTE! Think about your tonality and work your bodylanguage. If they want to understand you, they will manage. Keep away from clever puns and stuff that make them seem stupid. Try learning a word in their language and keep that as an inside joke... _________________ I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.
bbardot: you just reminded me about porn
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