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PostPosted: Fri Nov 04, 2011 12:05 pm 
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I'm an econ major who's interested in economics and psychology a lot...after PU of course...


One thing I stumbled across in my studies...is very relevant and useful in PU.

We all remember giving false choices (e.g. asking "Let's meet up is Friday or Saturday better for you?" instead of "Would you like to go out?") is quite useful.

But often times it seems a bit fake and in some situations u might find its hard to implement it.

Here is something imo more powerful and easy.

Set your preference as default(given) outcome and give her option to change it.

E.G. Let's say you have LMR.

Out of the top of my head: You can go smth like, "Tell me to stop if you want me to slow down. And escalate."

here we have both: false option which she most likely won't even choose.

If she's interested she won't tell you to stop unless you do smth very stupid.(or inappropriate/chody)

If she's neutral (but would rather take things more slowly) - She won't tell you anything (because of setting the fact that YOU WILL have sex as given"

If she's uninterested-she'll either tell you to stop, where you'll turn your escalation down a notch and try to get her hotter and build some complience

or

She'll tell you to stop even after you slowed down...then you are probably. better off stopping(cause chances are you didn't make your intent obvious/didn't sexualize enough/she has some "rules she really can't break"

The same can be used to avoid flakes. Rejections(although u prob. won't need this on approach itself) and etc.

Try it- see for yourself.

Where I learnt this from: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JhjUJTw2 ... re=related

Also if you watch it till the end there are some other things you can implement ;)


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nice article bro :)


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why do you manipulate women ? It is ruining your self esteem bro , think about it , you have to resort to lies to get a girl to go out with you , how much of a man are you ?


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Fascinating stuff. As was the you tube link at tehe end. As was the link to his homepage.

Today's not going to be nearly as productive as planned!


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 12, 2011 12:35 pm 
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why do you manipulate women ? It is ruining your self esteem bro , think about it , you have to resort to lies to get a girl to go out with you , how much of a man are you ?
If you watched the link in the end, you'd know that the reason why this works isn't because you make them do smth they already don't want to. They're 50/50 about it and they'd choose the easiest option. Why make not being with you the preferred? If she doesn't want you, this won't work anyways. This'll work if she wants you but doesn't feel comfortable saying that/escalating on you/agreeing to meet you for whatever reason.

Similarly, you build kino and compliance step-by-step, cause in most cases it'd be inappropriate/weird to go straight for sex. You give her what she wants, just make it easier to accept it.


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