Lately I've been thinking.... what's better to pull a girl home (or even get a meetup through phone/text), tell her direct or be undercover?

Let me give some examples so you guys know what I mean by them:

Direct = Let her know what you're really thinking (Alan Roger Currie/Mode 1 style):
After things are going well, and you know it's ON, you come out and say stuff like:
"We should get together and exchange orgasm sometime."
"I'd love to just take you home and fuck the shit out of you."
or "I can't wait to fuck the shit out of you."

I mean, you're being direct. But I can imagine some girls will feel like sluts when they meet up with you again, because they KNOW shit is gonna go down. I mean, I always put the nonjudgemental frame out there, but still...


Or is it better to be undercover and make up some "excuse" to give her the plausible deniability of: "Oh, we were just gonna play Nintendo and one thing led to another, and sex just sorta happened."

This always works if you're both feeling it, but sometimes I feel kinda.... I dunno, dishonest. We all know we weren't planning on playing no Nintendo Wii. Even SHE knew it. But I sometimes think that woman NEED that plausible deniability to not feel like a slut when they meet up with you.


I've had successes with both, but I'm not too sure which one would get me better results. What do you guys think?


and please: NO VIRGINS OR KEYBOARD JOCKEYS. ONLY REPLY IF YOU REGULARLY GET RESULTS (LAYS).

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In terms of the pull, I reckon undercover.

I find that a lot of the times, Girls need to a reason to justify leaving with you. Girls don't like being judged (in fact no one really does), so create a situation where she doesn't get branded with a slut title. Escalate heaps, but when you isolate or try to pull, go verbally indirect like your example. Just give her a reason for her to leave with you (without making her sound like a slut).

So indirect in my opinion.