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 Post subject: Do women get oneitis
PostPosted: Wed Oct 05, 2011 1:38 am 
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I have a feeling they do.


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hell yea! but it sucks, cause is psychotic and clinging... Crazy shit! i do not wish a women onitis on my worst enemy...

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hell yea! but it sucks, cause is psychotic and clinging... Crazy shit! i do not wish a women onitis on my worst enemy...
My ex! I knew it! In the relationship, she was clingy. After awhile of being apart, she hits me up randomly, even though we haven't had contact in almost a year.


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hell yea! but it sucks, cause is psychotic and clinging... Crazy shit! i do not wish a women onitis on my worst enemy...
My ex! I knew it! In the relationship, she was clingy. After awhile of being apart, she hits me up randomly, even though we haven't had contact in almost a year.

That is not onitis, she cares about you as a person...Normal behavior of exes...

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hell yea! but it sucks, cause is psychotic and clinging... Crazy shit! i do not wish a women onitis on my worst enemy...
My ex! I knew it! In the relationship, she was clingy. After awhile of being apart, she hits me up randomly, even though we haven't had contact in almost a year.

That is not onitis, she cares about you as a person...Normal behavior of exes...
What about being too clingy in a relationship. Texts were crazy. They would not stop.


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Oneitis is when a guy falls hard for a girl, to the point of obsessing over her. It is a disease characterized by the guy making statements such as “she’s the only one for me”, “she’s not like that”, and “she’s different from all the other girls”.

Guys who have oneitis feel that he is in love with the girl and that no other girl can meet his needs in the way that she does. Sometimes the girl is his girlfriend and sometimes just a “best friend” that he is in love with. It is a form of obsession.

Oneitis is a relatively common occurrence because the idea of being in love, and even of having unrequited love for a girl that doesn’t return the same feelings, has been romanticized in popular culture. In reality, it is a wrenching and painful experience that rarely ever results in a happy relationship.

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So... is love when both parties have oneitis?


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Yes of course we do.

I had it for a few years with my first Boyfriend.

Most females realise just like guys .....When you grow up...It's a narrow and blury way of thinking.....


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Women get oneitis like crazy. It happens all the time. They get a huge crush on a guy and follow him around everywhere. Difference is, it's a little easier for them to get over it, because if they're semidecent looking they'll have guys hitting on them which helps them move on

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So is 'Oneitis' crushing on a guy and following him around???
Or is that just bad behaviour displaying that she may be emotionally unstable, insecure, co-dependant and/or needy?

First step Define the word 'Oneitis'

360 has described 'Oneitis' as a desiese (as the name would also imply - 'Itis' - Medical term for Inflamtion) - The definition of Desiese - I did it at university last year - It's very broad term, but, in this sense,I think it implys that oneitis hinders a persons logical thinking process and changes the way they percieve another person(that is to say, they would have a different opinion if they did not have 'Oneitis') It would also imply that it is harmful to their health wether it be emotional, phsyical or mental.


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lol! i call girls onitis, psycho, women tend to go psycho... but it takes 2 mulitplier for women to get over a guy, a guy can get over a woman in a day... so if a girl was with a guy for a year will take her about 2 years to get completely over, in general...

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The general rule of thumb I've found is it takes me half the time I've known them, to get over them.
I.e. 1 year of dating 6 months to remove him from my system.

So you are saying phsycos, needy, codependant is differnt to oneitis or the same???

Are they the traits of oneitis?


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They call you, text you, like crazy, follow you around driving, in clubs etc.. they create fake profiles in myspace and facebook, they fake pregnancies, fake abortions,fake death in the family,get into your email/ voicemai/facebookl, they do shit to your car, they try to hurt you sending guys, taking you to court, destroying property, try to attack your new girls...I am traumatized by this stuff i do not wish any of that on my worst enemy has happened to me multiple times is crazy.... In my opinion women do not get onitis they go psycho...

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Yes 100%. I've been kinda stalked before. It's not a good experience.


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Origin of the term: John C. Ryan, AKA
Jack "Jetman"
"One-itis" is an unreciprocated sexual
or romantic infatuation or obsession.
The "one" part of "one-itis" seems to
refer to the tendency of AFCs to think of the object of their affection as "The
One" and to place her on a pedestal in
their minds. The "-itis" part seems to
refer to the notion that one-itis is like a
disease or disorder that you "catch."
One-itis is also sometimes used as a noun designating the object of one-
itis, e.g. "Style? told Lisa? that she was his one-itis." Causes of One-itis One-itis is usually caused by sexual
(and usually also romantic) feelings
towards another person, and often
but not necesarily combined with
feelings of unworthiness? and insecurity?. According to softcontrol ?, one-itis comes from "the lack of the ability to
handle one's emotional reaction to
attraction" to women (1). Symptoms of One-itis You are prone to have One-itis if you
have one or several of the following
symptoms: You spend most of your time
speculating on how you can get a
single person to like you. You are totally ignorant of other
people's advice, when they tell
you that the person of your
affections is bad for you. You don't know anything about
the person you desire, you
haven't had a longer conversation
with him/her and you can't think
of anyone else that you like. You are sexually interested in
someone that has kept you
waiting as a friend (LJBF) for a long time. You rationalize about it
a lot and hope that some day he/
she will see you as you really are. Consequences of One-itis One-itis in men towards women
usually causes supplicative behavior, feelings of desperation?, and chasing? behavior. Consequently, one-itis leads to unattractive behavior,
which tends to repulse the woman,
leading to outright rejection? or Let's Just Be Friends (LJBF). Women can get one-itis also, but it is
less detrimental to their chances with
the men they get it for. "Curing" One-itis According to common wisdom, the
cure for one-itis is to [Go Fuck Two
Other Women]? or Go Fuck Ten Other Women (GFTOW)

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