We all are studying how to pick women up/ get whatever we are out to get, but mistakes are usually made along the way.

Does anyone have a strategy for gently letting girls that you have done stuff with down? I am speaking for personal experience here....I mucked up!

Due to my lack of experience with girls, and my mentality at the time, I was enjoying the interest I was getting from girls I was talking to. I had bumped into this girl a few times while going out and spoke to her for like max 5mins each time. This one night a few weeks ago it sorta went further than just bumping into her, and we went back to hers and did a few things, but no sex. She had a decent enough body, but a rather geeky face, and a water bed

I made the mistake of adding her on facebook before I left. A choice I am now regretting because prior to that she didn't have any of my details. She has messaged me a few times, to which I have written short responses, not playing into any of her words.

I got another message today basically saying she had added me on msn, hoped that was ok, and that we could meet up and party : S

Part of me wants to, and perhaps take it all the way, but the sober part of me can't stand to look at her and needs a few beers. I don't have much experience with women, and I am expecting many other guys to have been in this position lots and to have thought and learnt how to deal with it. I really have no idea, its the first time I've encountered it. Any suggestions?

It's not a HUGE deal, cos I won't even be in Rotterdam come xmas!

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