I see this a lot around here, guys worrying about if their creepy.

Here is a little truth for you....

Show me any guy who gets laid a lot and i'll show you a guy who has creeped out a ton of girls.

The truth of the matter is this: if your going up to women and trying to pick them up, you will come off as creepy to some of them. Its unavoidable and the truth.

Sure, there could be other reasons as to why your creepy but if you goal is to never be creepy, it wont happen!

Creepyness: Not being align with your intent

But hey, even if you go up to girl and are completely in harmony with your intent, some girl will still think your creepy. Shit happens so stop worrying about it so much.

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I have a friend from back in highschool who is creepy as fuck (from the side lines) when it comes to girls. I am borderline embarrassed to go out in public with him. He pulls so many girls for SNL it's insane. He is extremely confident and direct (although ugly as sin).

Anyway, I agree with everything you wrote though. I think why success is held back from my own beliefs that I may come across as creepy. I play it too safe. Good post.

Being creepy works, no question. But it all depends on your target range. If you go for a quick SNL, creepyness works great. She will accept or eject - next one please. But usually you will not close on top notch targets this way.
Using creepyness as an humor element of C&F is another story.

Just my 2C

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It seems as if your saying to use creepiness as a tactic. I'm strongly against that.

To clarify, I'm not telling anyone to try and be creepy I'm just saying that when your expressing your honest sexuality to women, some of them will see you as being creepy and not to worry about it.

But no, do not try to use creepiness as some tactic.

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Agree...
Why not? Outside your social circle, what's the worst thing that could happen? Gaining some new insights? It's a game, isn't it?

Peace :)

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It happens that girls smile at me, and i smile back, and if i will go talk or do w/e with them, they will make that face as if i look creepy..

maybe try the 'o rly' face rather than the smile back, then it looks like you are going over to see what's up, rather than a puppy who has just had an invitation for a pat...

just an idea, i often wink, as well... point being that you may be forcing the smile, and ofcourse it always depends on what and how you are saying...

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I hate that really creepy guy who keeps trying to dance with me.





Sensual/sexual/aggressive/confident yes... Creepy no way.

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Thing is, some women will interpret "Sensual/sexual/aggressive/confident" to be creepy. Some women are just weird...

But yes, you should be "Sensual/sexual/aggressive/confident" and if some woman finds you creepy...oh well.

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There's a big difference between guys who occasionally come across as creepy and guys who almost always come off as creepy. Some of the guys around here seem to be the latter.

The cure is becoming more socially savvy.

Exactly specially the newbies, that do not have enough sense of calibration, so if you tell them creepy is ok, we are going to have to bail them out of jail...

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Lol! I was thinking the same thing.

Does being intentionally a weirdo count? Cause there's this guy in my class, and he's both a dickhead and immature as hell. He literally picks up girls he has been talking for five mins. or less and humps them against a post. Oddly, the reaction is laughter by everyone seeing it happen, and it goes to the point of he sitting on their chest and telling them to do a sit up. He does this when people are talking to each other too.

I don't know if this is the loophole in the female psicology all those porn sites talked about ( ) or if this isn't attractive and they are just playing along for the fun of it, or because they think saying no or fighting back (he's even taller than me, and I'm huge. Even though he is indeed ugly as hell. I doubt saying "no" seriously, would result in anything, though) would look bad. I don't know and it really creeps me out how this happens too, but apparently him slapping everyone's asses - male and female - is a DHV, since he has girls talking to him almost always.

wowooww! that guy sounds like me, hahaha! fun is king, i am a weirdo, crazy, funny, sexual like Howard Stern, so yes it works...

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I think the main thing is:

- If you're always creepy, you're doing something wrong and need to re-adjust. (These guys sometimes don't even realise that they're always creepy)

- If you're never creepy, you're not really pushing the line enough and it'd be a good idea to push things a little bit and risk being a little weird.

- If you're getting results and then the occasional "creepy" comment... you're doing things the right way.