Hey guys,

Went to a class last night where I didn't know anybody and they were all a couple years older than me (it's a 4th year class and I'm 2nd year). A little intimidating but I was keeping social and talking to people and yadda yadda yadda.

So across the classroom is this really cute girl, the exact kind of girl I want, by looks anyway. The thing is, I don't know how to approach her! I can't talk to her over the professor, or across the class. There was a small break in the middle of the class (it's 3 hours long) and I talked to her then, but I don't know how good my first impression was.

Point is, I want to know what YOU would have done to approach this girl? If you were in my position, how would you go about talking to her?

Just interested to get a different perspective.

PS: I see a cute Russian girl at a computer across the library I'm going to talk to. I'll let you know how it goes.

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-Sharplin
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hey man, however it went you should feel happy, you saw something you liked and you acted to go for it, alot of other guys wouldnt have

i know how you feel, alota time i see girls in college im like daym id love to meet her on a night out itd be on

what I like to remind myself of is that the proccess for you and her attracting and getting it on will always be the same, its universal and biological, so whatever the enviroment you can make it happen.

Also, mistake ive made too often (ive had 2 girls i coulda got with in college) is not acting when opportunity arose. Like it was the time to go in for the kiss close, like i normally would have had i met this girl on the night out, but i hesitate because she goes to my college

tho tbf one of them was because i had a gf at the time

either way well done man you should be proud you acted!

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I refuse to let fear be a problem

Id rather die on my feet than live on my knees

A thing in college is you can reopen people as many times as you want. it's basically a blank slate..

I've had girls who i swore hated me..so i'd avoid them. But the other day for the heck of it i decided to reapproach just saying that I've seen her around before..aloof to anything that may have happened in the past. I got her number that night and hooked up with her

Girls honestly remember nothing it's absurd

I'd have tried to fuck her.