For a 7 year old girl the best thing is anything beauty or girlie related. Fruity scented, nail polish, lip gloss, or shimmery lotion are all fun and age appropriate Ulta or Sephora are great one-stop shops for that.

For 7 year old guys they always like toy guns and action gear. Nerf guns, water guns, remote control helicopters are all great. Also, anything technological works.... a DS, PSP, or pre-paid cell phone with $15 on it can be exciting.

Have fun!

Hi AFC Adam

Great posts. How many girls have you F Clozed?

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Hey Adam

I have a question about your theory of pre-selection. You say that pre-selection is the biggest trigger of attraction in women right? I can understand why it would be attractive to have women after you, obviously because we all want what everyone else wants, and if we have women after us obviously we're high value. I don't understand the method behind it though, not in the way you teach it anyway.

First you have entourage game where you go into a club with a load of hot girls. I've tried this a few times, and I felt like it was sort of a waste of time. Well not a waste of time, I mean I would much rather be hanging round with hot girls than dudes, but it didn't make any difference to my game on any of those nights.

I also don't think girls in clubs would notice. Wouldn't they be more interested in how good they're looking? Wondering what everyone else thinks of them? Especially the hottest ones.

If I'm stood in the middle of a big group of hot girls, none of them are anything more than just friends, and the girls actually noticed me with them, wouldn't they begin to wonder why if I'm surrounded by all of these girls, I'm not anything more than friends with any of them? They could think either there's something wrong with me, or that I'm gay right?

And lastly, if I had the ability to bring 5 girls to a club, as you suggest you should do, why would I need to go clubbing in the first place?

I'm not being funny or anything but I just don't understand your method. I can understand pre-selection if there are like a few girls that know they're all after the same guy, and they get kind of competitive, but I don't understand why you would need to bring so many girls and keep them just as friends.

Heyyo adam
so me and me wing had a pretty bad blow out the other day but managed to make it work out a little better in the end

we opened a 2 set of idk HB9s or so? both blond, both older then me and hinm (we are 18, they looked..i would say 23 or so) and they blew us out pretty fast due to the fact that we look young
i know you dont work to much with spefice lines, but me and my buddy to go alot of events and interact with older crowds and the majority of the time we have great success we fit well with these people, and both work with these age people so we dont come across socially as youngins, but occaisonally there will be a group we come across like this who just act super super bitchy and try to get us to leave and they say its cause we look to young, what can we do to stop this? or something to say that would at least up our value, looking young for the most part lowers are value

thanks man

mR.e

ps, we stayed in set which was hard but we pushed through it for about 15 min then wanted to open more sets, so it wasnt terrible, but if i didnt make my wing and me stay in set it wouda looked bad! (he is some what nervous when hot girls try and blow him out and doesnt always stay in set)

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Dear Adam, I know you are very busy. I really love your attraction formula. I have bought your book and listened to your lesson on the first PUA university DVD set.

And I still would like to know better about this formula.

1) In your book you say that there are cases in which we can start from a phase different than Comfort without risking anything.
Does it depend on the girl's grade of interest in us or on the girl's character?
My everyday trials seem to incourage the second hypothesis: it depends on the girl's character.
If a girl likes us, but she is shy, probably we should start with the Comfort phase. If she is friend of friends and very committed to the interaction, probably we can start from the Breaking Rapport phase (and also if she is only an extrovert girl who immediately finds us attractive).
If a girl is sexually explicit, we should start from the Escalation phase.
Do you agree with these considerations?

2) Another element that makes me feel insecure is this: how do we understand the right moment for starting Breaking rapport? Are there some questions that we can ask ourselves in order to understand that the Comfort is completed and it's the time for Breaking rapport?
I find a lot of girls, expecially older girls, that are not committed to the interaction even after 10 minutes of conversation. It seems they have barriers. If I Begun Breaking rapport with these girls... so, if I let them know that they are not important to me, if I used Neg... I think they wouldn't notice it.
So my idea is: probably with these girls I should continue the Comfort phase until they consider me a sort of friend who is fantastic having around. Probably being cordial is not enough: I should be a very fun sociable guy.
What is your idea? Please, help me!

3) Lastly. On the DVD you say that Breaking rapport means stepping away from the girl. But on your book you say that a sexual innuendo is an instrument for Breaking rapport. Now, a sexual innuendo is not a way for stepping away.
So my question is: is it possible to end succesfully the Breaking rapport phase using only a sexual innuendo, or is it ever necessary to step away?

Sorry for my Italian-english. Thanks.

Hola Adam

You have a few other questions to answer, so ill make mine quick

Ive found myself in more than a few situations involving me talking to a girl in a car. Making them laugh and continuing the conversation is easy, but in such a confined space, how can you make escalation more fluent and less like
...well...like your trying to escalate inside a car?

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Hey man ive having a rough time in high school shedding my old reputation of being shy and basically socially retarted. I need a way to prove to my peers that im successful with girls but its really hard because even if you have great game if your rep is bad the girls will automatically have a bad opinion of you. Ive set my goals high i want to bang every hot girl in my grade (or as many as possible) before i graduate. The thing is im good with girls when im in the zone the problem is im almost never in the zone. How do i break my rep and ensure that im always in the zone? If it helps im not unpopular in fact i have a lot of aquatiances but they never call me out because they go out with hot girls and they think ill make things awkward. Please help me out im sure you can relate to high school problems i also wanna be an actor and awkwardness is something no successful actor must have (unless your planning to be in superbad 2lol )-Andrew

Out of the following list:

-Health
-Social Intuition
-Humor
-Status
-Wealth
-Confidence
-Pre-selection
-Challenging
-Other random DHV


Which do you find the best ways to demonstrate your value while attracting a woman and why?

You are already well dressed and probably extremely confident (considering you are a master PUA - LOL), so I guess health and confidence are natural ways to demonstrate value for yourself.

Also, if you have any favorites please feel free to explain.

Thanks!

Hi Adam!

I am a Uni student from Singapore! I told my close friends that there are three Brits I would like to meet if I got a chance. The first is your PM David Cameron, the other one is psychological illusionist Derren Brown, and the next one is you!

I just realised that you are answering qns here. Below is a probelm of mine which I posted on other sections.

Give me any sets and some time to analyze, I got the guts to open up and can do it fairly well, even though it might not be fantastic.

Now it is a different story. I got ladies talking to me. It has probably to do with my improved body language (I having been practising to fix my body language in the desired state in all location at all times). Some might be trying to hit me up but some are not. They range from 19 year old chick to 40 plus year old moms. It just was a very situational thing. I was asked about bus direction, asked to book for a slot in the queue, and even someone volunteered to help me to fix a new scanning machine when I looked like someone first time using it.

Logically it is a perfect chance to continue the dialogue. Yet my mind was in a conflict. One part of it tells me to continue. The other voice, which happened to be stronger, tell me to get out the the anxious situation politely and quickly.

As I was typing I was cursing in my hearts how many good chances I have lost!
Anxiety strikes me harder when I was "not ready" and the approach came too sudden when I was not in a state of mind of picking up.

Help and thanks a lot!

What are some techniques to ensure that the conversation doesn't get awkwardly silent?

I use talking about her clothing/style as a filler, but thats all I have.

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Hi Adam

I'm from Milan and as I told you this morning, after three weeks of massive and good training with the guys of project Milan (Seven in particular) I decided to study your method and signed to Personal Study Course.

What is your experience with italian students and italian girls?
Do you have any particular tip?

Who is the best to practice with? different style Puas, naturals, Afc friends or alone?
(since I only know here one of your former students).

Thank you

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Heya Adam!

Just a quick question,

I find it "easy" to have deep and interesting conversation in the beginning of getting to know someone - but I often find that after a couple of months of knowing someone, I'll run out of conversational material - I mean occasionally something will pop-up, and you can just have fun and do fun stuff together, but what do you and your wife for example talk about - you've known each other for a long time now :p

Hey Adam,

I'm having trouble thinking of interesting Day 2 locations. The trouble is it's now winter in New Zealand and I'm to young to hit up the clubs, also I live with my parents so my house isn't really an option. What are some good/your favorite places for Day 2's ?

hey man what's up....Wink i hope u doing great. look man i want u 2 help me with something so i'm going 2 make this quick ,i met a girl and we hang out 4 a couple off times and wee hit it off ,then she went 4 traveling around the world and touring ,so now i see her only on facebook and then she told me that she likes me and i am not like any guy she knew before and stuff like that and seriously i like her 2 she's beautiful girl and funy 2 soo why not, so i want 2 ask u how i can move foreword and take the next step or what can i do with her and let's not 4get that i only see her on facebook so i hope u help ur man caz i know the pickup stuff but don't know what 2 do next;)

Hey Adam,

I have a question on direct approaches during the day. I've been experimenting with them lately and have seen some results. The thing is my game is largely based off cock/funny, crazy role plays, stuff like that, and the only advice I've found on daytime direct approaches says to be very polite (not cocky). So is it possible to alter the direct approach in a cocky manner, or at least switch to a more cocky/funny frame right after the opener? Or will you just come off like d-bag?

Thanks for your help