Hey Adam,
It's been a few months since I contacted you. My game has improved pretty considerably and I've found my own style. And my new weapon iiss (drumroll please) soocial callibratioon!! Yep, these days I almost completely rely on my social calibration to swept the girls off their feet. After doing a bunch of sets throughout the year, the principles of attraction by Adam Lyons, triad model of Love Systems, etc etc has became a part of me. And the best thing about them is that, it suits my personality and convey it to people in the right way. Do I deserve a compliment and reward??? Just answer my questions please:
1. After a while on the game, I'm still having difficulties on building a massive social circle and create abundance. When I talk to the girl, like I told you before, I was a little bit of a natural and what I say is mostly full of frame control, qualification, and I can kino endlessly. If I meet the girl that I really want to get (say at 9) I can pump it even bit higher. I'm not that good, but sometimes I find that the girls that I just want to be friends with fall in love with me, and things will be hard when I ask her to hang out with me and bring her other hot friends. How'd you avoid this trap, man? I heard something about qualify yourself as a man with whom she can date, then disqualify yourself by saying that you're going to introduce her to your male friend, who might have the potential quality to be right man for her. What do you think about this? I don't really have a lot of QUALITY male friends that are single, the quality ones are usually the ones who has a girlfriend already. And how if the girl is an ugly girl, instead of pretty hot ones that my friends would like to go out on a date with? How do I add value to the UGs life?
2. Still about the social circle building, how'd you build a social circle that have a lot of high value female and male that I can hang out with? I they are so high value (successful with women, rich, having an interesting lifestyle, etc) I almost have nothing to offer, because they already have it all! How can I add value to their life? In some cases, these people actually only need a good listener that has no agenda than genuine friendliness, but how to deal with the ones that also asks for some kind of value in their life?
3. Daygame session! What do you think about big group approach and mixed sets on the daytime? If it's a filtered venue or I'm the one who has social proof (e.g my own school, party, venue where I have some friends) I do approach the mixed sets and have pretty big of a chance to get one of the hotties, but how do you deal with a "completely out of the blue" mixed sets, like the one who you see walking on the street?
4. Fashion time! You mentioned about using moisturizer to keep your skin fresh and healthy,and that many people mistaken your age as 23!! Do you use moisturizer on your face too or it's just your body skin? If you also use a face moisturizer, can I ask for a recommendation of a brand??
5. Specific sticking point question: how do you deal with a player? The story with this girl was, I met her at a party of my close friend's, I got her interest (a massive ones, if only it was quieter and had the game of mine at that time, I'm pretty sure I can k-close her). She was pretty easy to attract, friendly and it made me cocky so that I didn't bother to continue with building comfort further, which proven to be very fatal for me. For the next few weeks, I've gone through a lot of follow up game via text, Facebook and stuff, but it failed. Later, I was tired of dealing with her and decided to move on. To my surprise, last 2 weeks,she greeted me on MSN and it was game on. using stealth attraction, I loosely set up a date, but we can't do it until the next 2 month, she wants to hang out but she can't.
So basically, I'm doing a lot of phone and text game with her. She never reply to my text, but she always pick up my calls. One time, she picked my phone, chit chat for a while, but she said that her battery's running out and asked me to switch to MSN. I chit chat with her for a while, but seems like phone and text is her specialty. I didn't get much and I bailed after some conversation dry out.
She's a player and pretty good at text game. But when I call her, she's friendly and open, but she still has her game and just reply briefly to my comfort questions.
If I use too much push/pull or teasing, she'd be bored. What I did was put her on small qualification statements, like I complimented her on her make up, and said that not every girl could do that, then I ask her if she's learning it from her mom or by herself. She said it's for herself and I connect by saying it's important for a girl to be able to do their own make up. That's the only point where I got a pretty much info about her.
Now, I don't have that much time and money to buy credit to call her every few days, so, do u think it's a good idea to revert back to text game, or just call her every weekend (remember that we have set up a day2 plan few months later). What do you think I should do with this girl? I see a pretty good LTR or MLTR potential here.
Meanwhile, I'll meet several other girls.
Thanks a LLLLLOOOOTT, pal
God bless,
Steven
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