Do you feel Ashamed for being a PUA?



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Do you feel Ashamed for being a PUA?
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Where did you come up with this twisted view on reality? Who agrees with you baised on personal experience? I know the PUA's preach shit like this, but this shit is garabage. If you are helping people by sputtering this nonsense you should consider stopping. You might be doing more harm than good. Delayed gratification is something you might want to consider. And when I say Delayed I mean like 5 years down the road, or even 20. It is your life, and it's the only one you have.
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well i don't see how its a twisted reality, considering it happens every day.

girls like sex. girls that aren't getting sex, CRAVE sex. Girls can be sexually frustrated.

all of these can be confirmed by anyone on this forum that has had sex.

so, following a simple train of though, removing her sexual frustration and flooding her system with endorphins will make her happier. people that are happy are nice to people. people that are treated nicely are happier. get it?

there is nothing twisted about that at all.



and yeah, its only one life, i'm not gonna waste it waiting. I'm gonna step up and make my life worth living.

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and yeah, its only one life, i'm not gonna waste it waiting. I'm gonna step up and make my life worth living.
The last thing I want to do is to get into an argument about your beliefs. Why can't you just be honest.

Do you have long term relationships? Why don't you want that?

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A perfect example I have is that I just shut the door to my room because my roomate is home. I didn't want him to see me working on this fucking form.

that is a huge reason to get the fuck off of this forum.

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The last thing I want to do is to get into an argument about your beliefs. Why can't you just be honest.

Do you have long term relationships? Why don't you want that?
I have two girlfriends right now. Both of them know the terms of the relationship are open.

I just feel that, while these two girls are AWESOME, neither of them is exactly what I want (though together they cover most points) and if I were to just stick with one, despite knowing that I want more, is unfair to me, her, and whatever girl that passes by that I'd be perfect with.

My ultimate goal in PU is to find 'the one'. If I don't spend the time getting good at PU then maybe I'll find her and have no idea what to do.


I don't want to have to settle for something less, why do you?

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I have two girlfriends right now. Both of them know the terms of the relationship are open.
It is not about settling. It is about accepting faults, but that is far beside the point.


When you do get a women into your life, are you going to drop the other two like a bad habit? How will those women feel?

Also, when this girl comes into your life are you going to be prepared to handle it with two girls sucking your dick every other night?

My advice is to be single and a lone. Then wait for the girl, but that is just what I am doing. You don't have to.

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When you do get a women into your life, are you going to drop the other two like a bad habit? How will those women feel?
I'd take them aside and explain the terms, as they already know. It's not like i'm leading them on, they know what is going to happen. and they're obviously fine with it.
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Also, when this girl comes into your life are you going to be prepared to handle it with two girls sucking your dick every other night?
...what? the fact I'm practicing PUA will keep me prepared to handle it.
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My advice is to be single and a lone. Then wait for the girl, but that is just what I am doing. You don't have to.
that seems to go against my long and short term happiness.

Not getting out to game chicks and not experiencing what different girls have to offer reduces my chance of finding 'the one' and being able to get her when i find her.

as well as not having the experiences and being alone every night isn't fun at all and is dangerous for your health.

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Why is it that you guys can have the counter intutive logic against the majoirty of the world?

Don't you think that there is something there? The advice is just be yourself. Why does everyone say that. There is something to that. I don't need to change who I am. I just need to be myself.

This fucking PUA shit is warping my mind again.

You guys are like spiders. I'm out.

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s well as not having the experiences and being alone every night isn't fun at all and is dangerous for your health.
How the fuck is it dangerous for your health?


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How the fuck is it dangerous for your health?
constantly feeling alone can cause depression as well as hamper your ability to relate to other human beings.

thats dangerous for your health.


and magnum, you are aware that what you consider the 'normal' way of thinking is mostly based on falsely built ideals caused by religions in an attempt to control, and aren't based off of actuality.


and where have we said that you can't be yourself? We've merely said that if yourself isn't getting you what you want, maybe you should change the bad aspects of yourself. get rid of your shortcomings and always be your best.

its not like we're telling preppy jocks to start being nerds or nerds to be jocks. Almost all inner game is based entirely on being happy with who you are and not caring what other people think of you.

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Don't you think that there is something there? The advice is just be yourself. Why does everyone say that. There is something to that. I don't need to change who I am. I just need to be myself.
Brake down who you are, write out what your interests are, your goals, dreams ambitions, hobbies.

Then work on what makes you most enthusiastic and take that to women.

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Ive never been so proud , Pua has changed my life in many ways ; making me more interesting and motivating me into becoming better by taking the time to learn new and excting things.

Theres nothing to be ashamed

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Why is it that you guys can have the counter intutive logic against the majoirty of the world?

Don't you think that there is something there? The advice is just be yourself. Why does everyone say that. There is something to that. I don't need to change who I am. I just need to be myself.

This fucking PUA shit is warping my mind again.

You guys are like spiders. I'm out.
It is counter intuitive logic because women are counter intuitive in nature. The majority of the world sees women as a mystery or an enigma. PUAs see women as they are. We understand them in a way that the majority of the world can't. We understand how they are insurmountably complex and utterly simple at the same time. We understand how they are completely unique, while they are also all the same. We understand their needs and motivations, their reasoning and justifications, their desires and their fears, their responses and their attitudes. We understand the mystery which others never will.

And the majority of the world does not accept those ideas, just certain societies. When I go to Mexico, every guy has the same mindsets that PUA teaches. Don't let society dictate your actions. You live only in one society, but the world is vast and yet all people are the same on the inside, don't accept the limiting beliefs of your society blindly.
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I don't need to change who I am. I just need to be myself.
You've had your whole life to "be yourself".


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I believe being a PUA is just evening out the playing field for men.

Most 'nice guys' have trouble picking up women when their competing with mean guys. These women are getting a better deal. They get to be with intelligent men with kind sensitive interiors and arrogant charming exteriors rather than mean men with cold heartless interiors.

Of course this doesn't apply to everyone but from my experience its the good guys that struggle most.


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This fucking PUA shit is warping my mind again.

You guys are like spiders. I'm out.
Does this mean you are finally gonna stop posting your negative comments of the forum??? FInally! :D

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This fucking PUA shit is warping my mind again.

You guys are like spiders. I'm out.
Does this mean you are finally gonna stop posting your negative comments of the forum??? FInally! :D
Haha.

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