Hahaha

Ha ha!

So this was a thread on how awesome you are...

You keep on telling everyone that it is not a big deal for you.

I dont believe you.

You took all the work to write a kind of long post. The title was obviously intended to maximize the WTF factor. So dont say it wasnt a big deal, you wanted all this attention.

You wrote that it is a big deal for us. Well, at least for me its not a big deal, I couldnt care less. I'm only writting here because I have nothing better to do right now, this thread is kind of funny and I feel that this need to be straightened up.

I dont like when people start pulling wacky stunts to get laid. Even if that stuff works. It sends the wrong message.

Kissing a dude its not a wacky stunt per se. I kissed a guy in the cheek once because this girl challenged me. But I'm not proud (or ashamed) of doing that.

Ezo, you are obviously proud of kissing that guy. Not because you are gay ore something like that. You are proud of a wacky stunt you did.

Wacky stunts are kind if funny and they might be cool for a sec. But we are not in kindergarden, you cant be the kid that eats worms your whole life.

I've been involved in some wacky stunts. But a line needs to be drawn, its important to know when you are becoming an attention whore. And to make things worse, an attention whore that has a perfectly rational reason to act in such a way: the pick up arts.

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Hmm guess I'm the "newbie" in the OP. There is nothing wrong with what you did(techincally, I still think it's wack) but I just don't think that it's alpha male behaviour. If you have to resort to kissing a dude to get a girl well she had better look like bar rafaeli or some shit.

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I did not take offense man.

The thing is exactly what Sharplin just wrote.

A guy tried to AMOG me with a chickenrace. It could have been anything, downing a beer, holding your hand over a candle. Anything. In this situation all of the other choices were worse. I could have refused of course but then I would be the one backing down. I could have reframed but then I would still have been the one to back down.
I think you need to see two things that are a bit difficult to see.

1. The guy didnt set the frame, the situation did.
2. It was not a big investment for me. I am not afraid of kissing a guy. I dont like it but hey I have got a toothbrush at home. Like I said, it was not a big deal. Now this might perplex a few of you but really it was not.

The guy didnt expect me to be strong enough to accept his challenge so he didnt really expect that I would do it. When I did he lost. Unless he was gay of course, then he won.

So you see, I work on destroying my limitations. I try to identify my fears and kill them. How can your mind be free if you still have fears? I accept a lot of stuff that most people find difficult.

I hope you will understand now. Your mind is caught in a loop, you cannot be truly powerful if you dont break it. Think outside the box.

I think I understand you a little more now.

If I think about it I think that kissing a guy is a lot bigger deal for me than for you. That's why I thought that you were needy. I was thinking what I would have done not what you would have done. And we are obviously different persons.

I'm pretty sure that no man could make me kiss a guy. I would rather jack off all week than kiss him and get the girl. Even if I would be horny as fuck.
And I'm not homophobic or something stupid like that. I just really dont like it and that would be too much of a investment for me. I have never even kissed an ugly girl. Even when I was drunk ahahahahahahahahahahahaha

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No! Did you not read the post???

The whole gay business was an amazingly small part of it! It was originally meant to be there just for entertainment!

This post was meant to say something important and not that I am awesome! I am not proud about anything. It simply was.

You are right about one thing though, I am an attention whore.

But that has nothing to do with this post. I am sad that the real message has been lost a long time ago... Read the original post again!

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Let me go ahead and preface this in saying that I'm not making a judgement on the OP's sexuality. I know how some users tend to take things out of context:


I believe that kissing another male to prove that you are comfortable with your sexuality is taking it to far. I can honestly say that every girl that I have ever been with would find this a major turnoff. There's just a certain line you dont cross. I understand your reasoning behind doing this, but c'mon. When it comes down to making out with a male, you gotta draw the line. I've never considered making out with a girl to be anything but sexual (albiet very PG rated).

Again, this is just my opinion. I'm not trrying to make a character judgement on the OP, just offering up my views.

First off props to Ezo for taking the dive and kissing the dude. You got major balls for doing it, but damn... not the way I would have responded to the challenge.

Though now I keep thinking "He kissed a dude and he liked it, the taste of his cherry chapstick!" LOL

Personally, I think that Alphas would probably be comfortable with putting a female above them in some way, because it proves that they are not threatened by a female. A man who can accept that women have certain influences over them are able to see those influences and act in ways that are in line with their own desires.

This is my favourite thread in all time, and I shall cherish it for eternity.

Each to their own fella, but in all honesty, it's not a resort I would venture to. There is being comfortable with your sexuality, and not caring if guys see you naked or calling each other babe just for shits and giggles. I personally, believe that when you venture to kissfinity and beyond if you get my drift, you are labelled as one who chooses to take part, in the rear arts.

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Well I wouldn't of done the same as you but I understand why you did it. I don't knock you for it or anything of that sort. I feel that sometimes things need to happen for you to get what you want and you did that. So I support you in what you did.

Alias

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I am not gay... just so that you know. Rear acts can also be done with women.