Sorry to bring in a quote from page 1, but that is some damn good advice. I think as a general rule once most men get the horn, they'll ravage anything they can get their hands on, but just stop and think, if you had just layed one out, would you still want her?

It is definitely good play to have an FB waiting, but make sure that she still falls within this rule, I think it is important. Fucking an ugly girl could make your inner game suffer, as you'd be used to ugly girls, the hotter ones may start to imtimidate you like they did when you were an AFC. Similar to what Fame2Advancement said.

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I guess this is a bit up to how you work as a person... I have a FB that's about a 5-6.. she's fun to hang with, has a good sense of humor, is fun to talk to... scratches my back and all the other stuff I miss when I'm not in a relationship.. and the sex is pretty good too. I seriously feel that her presence is helping my game. Thanks to her, I honestly don't give a crap whether I get laid or not, most of the time sarging.. My goal is to improve my game, not getting as much booty as possible. I've never been that concerned about looks.. the flip side of it is that it's pretty easy for me to play around with an 8-9 (never met a 10 yet), 'cause in my head it's all "okey, so you have a good body.. one point for you... my shirt is nicer than yours, one point for me"

In my experience the mind set "I don't give a crap about your looks, and I'll only sleep with you if you can attract me enough sexually" works wonders, especially on the hotter girls who are used to guys falling all over them.

But anyways.. I have this FB relationship with her because I feel comfortable around her and like being with her. She might not be the greatest looker out there, but I enjoy her company.. and I would never be ashamed to say I know her or something (I know people with all kinds of looks.. all the way down to 2s or something). I'd say the rule is "never fuck somebody you're ashamed of". THAT would seriously hurt my game, but isn't something I would do.

yeah dude. I got a fuck buddy. She is the LAST resort though. Keep the FB but keep your distance at the same time. She should be used for the time when you need her. Like i said, LAST RESORT!

Good to hear guys using a FB, maybe I should.

i would like to find one. can you point me in the right directions of finding a female fuck buddy?

Step 1: Get a girl sexually interested in you (get her to sleep with you and make her want to come back for more). Being great in bed helps a lot I suggest reading the posts on the forum about pleasing women.

Step 2: Build enough comfort for her to want to hang around you a bit... but not too much, 'cause then she will lose interest and you will be LJBFed. You want her to feel comfortable with you, not take you for granted.

Step 3: State your intent. Tell her "I enjoy hanging out with you, and you're sexy/good in bed, but I don't wan't a serious relationship at this point in my life". Be sure to state it as a fact. THIS IS NOT OPEN TO DEBATE, SHE CAN TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT.

Please note that you always have to be prepared to lose the girl if you want to make a FB out of her. Also know that FB relationships are seldom the most stable ones. She could decide that she wants something more serious at any time. If she gives you an ultimatum, repeat step 3. If she falls for another guy I suggest letting her go... remember, a FB relationship is for fun, not for making girls miserable. The good thing about this is if you treat her good she's likely to come back to you later... It's not too bad to be the "rebound guy" for a bunch of women who just want to fuck the crap out of someone to get over their ex boyfriend. If it's just good sex you're after.

can i find girl like this online? any good website?

I have two FB's, but one lives too far from me, so she doesn't count.

The new one, which I picked up at a make up store (day game, yaaay!) is great, she's not super hot but she's totally ok (typical HB6). We get along very good as friends too. I've told her everything about my PU-life and also showed her the "Pick Up Artist" tv-show. She actually got a little intrested after watching it, so we've had a lot of PU-discussions. =)

Anyway, a FB is very good, you get sex, which is good for everything in your life. You get happier, more calm and confident. When it comes to PU, its pure gold. I remember one saturday when my FB was coming to my place after we both had been to different clubs. So when I was sarging, I knew that I was gonna get layed anyway so I didn't think of sex when I was at the club. That effected my body language very much, the girls picked up my "I don't need to get into your pants"-calmness and It worked soooo great. I didn't actually need to approach, they approached me! =)

So keep your FB! =)

These are all valid points but I say don't put artificial limits on your sex life. Don't discriminate, eliminate.

Yeah she might not be a 10 but sex is better than no sex. If you can do better, try for it.... but until you get that dime just like anything else, practice makes perfect. You want to be such a good lay with that 10 so she keeps coming back for more, just like a drug addict.

In my experience a girl will have sex with a guy 5 times before you get to the 'where is this relationship going' stage, then you gotta play it carefully as to not let her get too emotionaly attached

Fuck buddies are kick ass....
Unless of course you really start getting interested in a girl.. then drop that HB5

not if its a 5.. try to get at least a 6 -7.. make sure shes on the pill

My rule is...if I don't want to have sex with her after I jerk off, I shouldn't have sex with her. [quote]

The fuck buddy who is a 6 or a girl you aren't necessarily proud of isn't detrimental to your game and long as you're still able to get with better looking women. Like many people have said before, it should be used as a last resort and nothing more.

Something I've found is that FBs fade over time. It may just be me but after a while of sexual intimacy and no emotional connection, they either get tired or find themselves a bf. They don't necessarily feel used unless you're playing her but after a while I guess they feel like sluts. Anyone have any tips on keeping them for longer periods of time?

There's no need to be getting yourself accustomed to a sav. Drop the five. the loss of sex will give you more of an incentive to up your game and more respect when you wake up to someone you can be seen in public with.

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