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talk louder is a good one.

you could only talk loud for so long. so i bounce the target and the obstacle/friend to a nearby spot away from the speaker.

usually works well with 1-2 sets.. if your with a wing man 2-4..


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a few things ive used in loud ass clubs is "damn its crowded in here!" - this is a phrase that can be easily understood (if said loud enough), rather than some complicated opener, and 99% of the time the target will agree. then u can go forward from there. or if its overly crowded and loud you can be sarcastic and say "man, this is great!" or something similar and have a sarcastic expression on your face. ive done this many times and it gets your target to giggle (because she knows it sucks walking around shoulder-to-shoulder with people). she will think you are at least somewhat funny, which is better than how most people act in a crowded club. then u can start up a convo. you cant have detailed convos when it is loud, you have to think of short phrases you can say until you isolate your target to a quieter area


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There's always some people talking near the entrance to the club, where it's quiter.


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I love going to loud clubs and i get alot of HBs there, and this is how I do it. It takes practice like everything but its almost easier.

First and main warning: Dont try and chat girls up on the dance floor unless you are fully dancing and even they i wouldnt. Ive learned this from experience you get an IOI and go over and lean over to say "hey..." and they will very often (if they are 9ish HB) just look straight to their friends and lock you out probably laugh too.

||What I like to do I call "Distance Dancing" it is where a girl makes eye contact with you and the first step is you give her a smile and point at her, mabey turn the smile into a laugh. ( PLEEASE NO PISTOL POINTS) I would then turn about half a turn away so your not staring at her anymore.

At this point you will have her attention so its important to make the most of this time while shes looking so do a bit of a fun dance with one of your friends mabey even dance "slightly gay" with a friend it makes girls laugh and she will think your good fun.

Then id move on the dancefloor a bit so your near enough to approach but not noticably trying to make a move, next time she looks at you keep her eyes and smile again but this time dance as if you were dancing with her but from a distance. and then approach her, something i often do when i start dancing with a girl is start dancing side on so she can see you and doesnt just have you jump on her back and she should dance back a bit at this point you can get Keno, by holding her hand and moving her and spin her just in a fun way, nun of this serious salsa stuff. at this point your in!||

Now your dancing with her you have a few options.

- point towards the smoking area and fan your face to show your hot and you should go get some fresh air, then you can run your talking game.

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- keep dancing ( i prefer this because you have your keno you have your IOI's and its kiss close time). If you choose to keep dancing dont forget her friends especially if shes in a 2 (but you already knew that) so dance between the 2 so they both feel involved but keep turning towards to other girl, she will realise that her friend needs some space and give you a chance (hopefully..usually)

The main problem you may encounter at this point is the friend(s) dissaproving and when you turn your back on them they're shaking they're heads like the churchill dog, so its good to keep them in eyesight and if this happens shout to the girl something like. "I dont think your friends like me... I think its my hair it has this effect sometimes!!" or something like that.

-the key thing to remember in a friends dissaproving situation is you can either work on getting the friends to approve by dancing with them too, or the easier option is just to seem such a great fun guy to the girl that she doesnt care what they think.

anyway that was a long guide but i hope it helps someone, it works great for me and id recommend you use it theres nothing worse than getting locked out by a quite a few people for trying to drop in chat up lines and ask them questions when its too loud.

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I'm not sure if this will help, but usually I wear a classy, but somewhat ridiculous hat to night clubs. Billabong hats work well. Girls will start flirting with you or commenting on your hat. If they say they like it, take it off your head and put in on theirs. Then walk off to a quiet spot. In a little while, when they're ready to leave, they will find you and walk over to the spot where you are to hand your hat back.

There. Now you're ready to initiate a pickup.
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I find that too loud music will ruin your game as the target and/or obstacles WILL lose focus and interest in you if they can't hear you. If they are anything above HB7 they will blow you out.

That! is why I go to outdoor clubs where the club music gets them pumped, but the air takes the vibrations away. Kakaww....


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The trick i like to use in a club that has really loud music is a simple but effective one...

The key here is to remember that no women is going to be attracted to someone who isnt any fun. So of course, smile and look like you can enjoy yourself with or without girls. This will obviously give off the impression that your an alpha male and that your confident enough to do your own thing regardless of there being loads of HB's kicking around.

Anyways back to the main point, peacocking is important here.

The approach in which i use is a cocky/funny approach, you need to chose a strategic spot near a target so you can easily engage conversation. So walk over to this spot, and if youve peacocked well enough the target will at least take a little glance at you, at this point i turn around to her with a serious look on my face and say "I saw you checking me out", 9 times out of 10 the girl will be shocked and respond with "what are you talking about, no i wasnt", at this point you then say "dont worry about it, if i were you id be checking me out too, but there is no need to lie about it" Everytime i have used this the girl has be very impressed and taken aback by the confidence in which i have and it gets there attention. This is when you need to start throwing in all of your material and sets. Its like taking candy from a baby at this point.

I personally am not a big fan of sarging in big clubs because alot of the time girls are so pissed that they wont really remember you in the morning. However if you are good enough, they wont be able to forget you ;)

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At the begining when a club opens, the music will be quiet and the dance floor empty. Roll with an AFC crew and DANCE damnit! Nobody else will be dancing and everyone will notice you, and your friends will laugh and take the piss, but your value will soar.

Later when everything is in full swing, you can easily go up to any set that noticed you earlier and dance with them.

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Don't repeat yourself. If you say "what?" and she doesn't speak loud enough for you to hear her, ask her to come somewhere a little less noisy so you can actually have a discussion.
I do this all the time and I think it's important to mention. When you're at a loud club it's super easy to isolate! =)


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At the begining when a club opens, the music will be quiet and the dance floor empty. Roll with an AFC crew and DANCE damnit! Nobody else will be dancing and everyone will notice you, and your friends will laugh and take the piss, but your value will soar.

Later when everything is in full swing, you can easily go up to any set that noticed you earlier and dance with them.
gotta be carefull with that one, iv seen it happen alot where people started thinking he was handicapped, they cheered him on and stuff but he had no chance of pickign up later, only a few grinds as a joke.


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How do you get a girl to make out with you in the club??


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Whisper in her ears. Speak whispering in her ears. This works 100%. A bonus tip in this situation is to smack some cologne on the back of your ear so that when they whisperback in your ear they can smell your cologne, don't put too much on the back of your ear because women got sensitive noses.
i agree completely, i was actually about to post that. Whisper in her ears and make sure your cheeks are touching (as in your left cheek is touching her left cheek) it gives semi-sexual kino

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Whisper in her ears. Speak whispering in her ears. This works 100%. A bonus tip in this situation is to smack some cologne on the back of your ear so that when they whisperback in your ear they can smell your cologne, don't put too much on the back of your ear because women got sensitive noses.
i agree completely, i was actually about to post that. Whisper in her ears and make sure your cheeks are touching (as in your left cheek is touching her left cheek) it gives semi-sexual kino
This does work well if you're capable of getting close to her without leaning in. If you have to lean in more than a fraction in order to speak in her ear, then you're "pecking" and it is actually VERY off-putting. If you can do it while keeping your body 90% vertical, then it works well though. The issue is that some guys don't have the confidence or strong body language to be able to pull this off right away in an interaction.

When I teach guys how to talk in a club I teach them about speaking from their diaphram. Put your hand flat, so the heel of your palm sits right in your solar plexus (the dip between where your ribs meet in your chest). Then, take a deep breath and when you speak, push out with that area on every word. Make sure you are only pushing that area out and not your whole stomach, your stomach should be taught, but not pushing out. Punctuate every word you say and say them all individually so that you make sure you can feel that area tense and push out on every single word. Once you get the hang of it you can speak faster, but make sure you continue to push out on every word.

You'll notice that this REALLY deepens and projects your voice. If you do it with enough force you can speak at a regular volume in the middle of a loud club and people on the other side of the room will hear you just fine over the music, let alone the girl right beside you, so you won't have any more issues with being heard in clubs and bars.

Once you get the hang of it you'll start doing it naturally whenever you speak and develop a real seductive quality to your voice. Until then, you can easily put a hand to your mid-section every once in a while, when your'e talking, to make sure you're doing it right. No one will even think that you're doing anything out of the ordinary, but you can easily ensure that you're speaking in such a way that you'll be heard and attract the ladies.

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