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Whisper in her ears. Speak whispering in her ears. This works 100%. A bonus tip in this situation is to smack some cologne on the back of your ear so that when they whisperback in your ear they can smell your cologne, don't put too much on the back of your ear because women got sensitive noses.
i agree completely, i was actually about to post that. Whisper in her ears and make sure your cheeks are touching (as in your left cheek is touching her left cheek) it gives semi-sexual kino
This does work well if you're capable of getting close to her without leaning in. If you have to lean in more than a fraction in order to speak in her ear, then you're "pecking" and it is actually VERY off-putting. If you can do it while keeping your body 90% vertical, then it works well though. The issue is that some guys don't have the confidence or strong body language to be able to pull this off right away in an interaction.
When I teach guys how to talk in a club I teach them about speaking from their diaphram. Put your hand flat, so the heel of your palm sits right in your solar plexus (the dip between where your ribs meet in your chest). Then, take a deep breath and when you speak, push out with that area on every word. Make sure you are only pushing that area out and not your whole stomach, your stomach should be taught, but not pushing out. Punctuate every word you say and say them all individually so that you make sure you can feel that area tense and push out on every single word. Once you get the hang of it you can speak faster, but make sure you continue to push out on every word.
You'll notice that this REALLY deepens and projects your voice. If you do it with enough force you can speak at a regular volume in the middle of a loud club and people on the other side of the room will hear you just fine over the music, let alone the girl right beside you, so you won't have any more issues with being heard in clubs and bars.
Once you get the hang of it you'll start doing it naturally whenever you speak and develop a real seductive quality to your voice. Until then, you can easily put a hand to your mid-section every once in a while, when your'e talking, to make sure you're doing it right. No one will even think that you're doing anything out of the ordinary, but you can easily ensure that you're speaking in such a way that you'll be heard and attract the ladies.