how to be the shit ?

knowing psychology ... you don't have to be a expert but you should know how you and your own mind works , second are social factors and behaviours - knowing how society and the people in society work you either get it or you don't.
if you don't know your mind to the fullest extend it's hard to adopt certain positive or realistic mindsets , always work from principles.

1. Knowing yourself
2. Knowing society
3. Having goals
4. Having a personal understanding about life
And these 4 have to be linked and intertwined in a simple concrete personal belief system ( flexible belief and not rigid ) , since external value ( other people, objects ) is dynamic you cannot draw value from it. Your value to your enviroment isn't dynamic either but you shouldn't let your enviroment determine your value - oversimplificated example : if you really can't dance and don't want to dance but you are on the dancefloor you are not having much value for your enviroment.
Static value is the value of communication to yourself, the value from you to you is always static - however to keep it static or in a growing trend you need to shield it from external factors which can deplete you value ( like getting dumped and thinking you are a weak wuss or something). Therefore you need to know what you value and what your personal boundaries are.
5. you have to be concious of how you influence yourself - (self talk/dialoge ) and 6 . you have to be concious on how your enviroment influences you.

Nothing is bad or good , it's the personal subjective meaning you assign to it - getting rejected can be a good thing , the girl could be insane or she is used to stealing money from people - be glad you got rejected by her. It's the internal dialoge - the personal meaning which creates positive or negative experiences.

with these few you have to keep the above 6 in mind and try to figure out what is relating one to another. ( from a personal standpoint)

1. You have to perceive everything in a positive way instead of focussing on the negative. Dealing with dissapointment will stop your growth until you aren't dissapointed anymore , don't spend energy on things that won't give results ( wastefull thinking).

2. You cannot judge other people because judging can become a unconcious behavioural pattern if practiced/applied long enough. When this becomes a behavioural pattern you will also judge yourself unconciously or conciously.
there 1 and 2 , don't assign and fixate on negative meanings and don't judge your enviroment unless people are really communicating too much through their ego.
If you put stamps/labels on your own enviroment - negative stamps - you will become negative yourself.

3. Everything you do is giving you a pay-off ... eating unhealthy food give you a satisfaction is taste experience but will unsatisfy you concerning health. Don't chase short lived pay-off which can't be translated to long term succes. Don't chase Superficial pay-offs, IOI's from girls is nice but you will grow dependent off them - getting dissapointed and probably judge people who don't give you IOIs. Ask yourself this, is this bringing me closer to my goal or is this distancing me from who i really am, if you want a good career sarging 24/7 would be a stupid thing to do UNLESS you sarge to practice social skills which will increase your efficiency in your career.

4. Personal boundaries ..... certain pay-offs and influences from your enviroment could compromise your value , therfore you should really be concious of your own actions and actions of others '' is this distancing me from who i really am ?''. making your own values static in a dynamic enviroment.

maybe you will have delusional mindsets of coolness , like you are the coolest motherfucker on this planet ..... delusional ? yes ... does this mindset helps me ? certainly. When you have a mindset it must be based on a fundamental understanding and experiences ( could be regarded as facts) however your whole mindset build up is dependent on how you assign personal meanings to experiences. when someone rejects you you should feeling sorry for them because you are entertaining, fun and a cool high value guy to talk to.

Most people tell me i change alot , i hear this every week or 2 , so i must be growing alot. Most people in real life are also very impressed with what i say and comfortable when conversating with me. People that i hang out with years ago reject me or don't like me anymore which is completely cool , because most of them are not good people im glad i've changed and im glad they are intimidated by my value nowadays. Years ago i couldn't interact with very high value succesfull people but only with pub-campers , nowadays i only have friends who are very high value and succesfull - and most of these people who i don't even know respond positive to me. if high value people are responding positive like i have alot of value as well i must have value. I have alot of charisma with everything i do wether with sports, conversation or writing.
I must have the Charisma of glory ... the aura of glory .... it doesn't matter what i do because i have the charisma of glory - im not just a high valued guy I AM ''THE'' high valued guy.

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