i don't know, but maybe your overdoing it a bit?
maybe. don't dance or something. and open her first.
than start dancing:d and pull her in the circle. this gives her the same high status as you have. so you start role playing that you are king and queen of the club. (if she already is the top of the club. she will like it if you can even get her higher ;)

your social proof is good. but maybe not really interesting to her because she is already the hottest girl in the club. she istn't interested because you can't give her more value than she already has.

show her you can give her more value than were she is now. and you're in.