Like bon said, you don't call one night stands. When you're interested in having it go beyond the single night of passion, its a Same Night Lay.

And if she doesn't answer your calls after the lay, its because you did something wrong earlier.

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

Yeah!!! Be the wanty guy.

Needy Guy:

Why won't she return my calls?

How can a tell a friend that I'm interested in her?

Urgent advice needed!

Why do the girls I meet flake when I try to set up day twos?

Do I have oneitis?

Wanty guy:

I visited Chicago but didn't book a hotel room because I planned to stay at the apartment of a girl I met that night.

I moved to a tropical island to be adventurous.

I missed nine phone calls from the girl I met last week because I was watching a movie with my regular.

My girlfriend gets jealous when other girls talk to me.

Eskwire, what was that? Like needy guys post vs. wanty guys posts?

It seems like you are confusing demostrations of high value with demostrations of desire for a woman.

Being a "cool" guy is not necessarily related with showing desire for a chick.

Desire in this case, means sexual appetite in a passionate way. Passion is always good as in living your life with passion. Passion is always bad whan you get too passionate about a girl you just met.

There's a problem with this disscusion: Being wanty, needy or passionate can be equally bad, or good (well, needy is always bad). Sometimes people picks words because they sound pretty and thats the case with the use of "desire" here.

Desire is just plain old lust (horniness). (just google desire)

Not being needy is a thing you learn out there in the field. Basically out of trial and error. Having a friend to let you know whan you are being a push over helps a lot.

Women loved to be wanted (who doesnt). Thats a know fact. Learning how to use that in your favor is the goal. Conveying "desire" is a vague thing.

One of the main things to consider is timing. A dumb ordinary and over used compliment like "you have beautiful eyes" can be surprisingly effective if used at the right moment.

I'm not talking IOI's here, this is beyond just being interested. Is making a woman feel like desired, beautiful and if you are good enough, worthy.

With most girls its really easy. Just hitting (properly) on a normal girl (HB6 to does the trick, she'll be flattered.

With hotter women, it is not as easy... because they are used to be desired. With the absolute hottest ones, (that have some brains and charisma too) you have to offer them something unique. Thats hardcore stuff, not for the unexperienced, and to be honest luck plays a huge role with this girls... sometimes you dont have to do anything, sometimes it doesnt matters what you do... to increase your chances you have to try a lot. And that applies not only to the hottest ones, in general more experiments increas the probability of a success.

I'm gonna post about this in further detail later, I wrote a little bit about a ton of things here, and thats not very helpful for the guys that want to learn...

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Kalle Lasn

"Motherfuckers best belive in....That you are fucking with the best" - 3oh!3

Teasing is a battle plan for what Shakespeare called “the merry war.”

This is giving me a headache.

I'm going to pick up on chicks. Okay! Bye!

Mr. Amador most of what you say is correct.... but when u say that hotter girls are harder thats not correct. Mystery always says " they're just different". There still women and more importantly a human being....there just as insecure and have similar emotions as a normal looking girl. They are not any harder - they still wear the same amount of make-up .....Their mind-set is jus diffrent and they have been approached more often. In fact this makes it easier for you - you have a whole line of AFC for her to compare to...making you look more attractive, if you know how to use this to your advantage. You just have to be the one that stands out.
I understand just by talking to a HB6 - she will feel wanted. But whats next?- you can't just take her home by saying "hi" to her.... you still have to demo ur game.... Simialirly a HB10 will also feel wanted by you talking to her - sure, not as much as the HB6- but she will still get the feeling.... either way you still have to perform the same game and put in similar effort. With the HB6- lots of compliments is the way - but thats not the same with the hb10. HB10 give u more attention for negs.... are negs harder to perfom than compliements???? No... They are jus different.

Angelz... let me add something to my old post:

"At least in my book"

I made a mistake on my last post, I wrote "HB". Automatically everyone thought I was talking only based on looks. On my HB scale I consider other factors like charm, intelligence, how nice of a person is she, etc.

And yes, at least for me is harder to game a highly attractive girl.

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"[Cool is] a heavily manipulative corporate ethos. ”
Kalle Lasn

"Motherfuckers best belive in....That you are fucking with the best" - 3oh!3

Teasing is a battle plan for what Shakespeare called “the merry war.”

Mr. Amador,

Wait a sec . . . You actually find it "harder" to game "charming, intelligent, attractive" girls? Did I miss something?

Charming, intelligent, attractive, nice girls DO NOT act bitchy and stand-offish when you approach. They don't tell you to "fuck off". They have humor and they are social . . . these girls are by far the EASIEST girls to game because they are confident and don't give a damn about the ditzes who might point their fingers. They know how to play off of your conversation and they're not afraid to be themselves in a social environment because they don't give a damn what the peasants think about them. I don't get it. What is it exactly you find so difficult about people who are so "charming, intelligent, and attractive"?